Hi Carol. I'm SOOOO sorry you're having to go through this. You expect that people who deal with obese patients day in and day out would have more enhanced people skills. Guess not. I'm in California, but if there's anything I can do to help you with this problem, please let me know. I DO know how you feel - it's like you take what we give you or you can forget it - "we're doing you a favor". Like hell! I'm also having issues with my revolving door of a bariatric center. My problems are not as bad as yours, but I do understand what you're going through. If you could change centers/surgeons, you should probably consider it. Good luck to you and know that you'll be in my thoughts. You deserve only the BEST!