Sally, I feel you, Sister! I can only imagine what you are going through, but you are SO CLOSE~DON'T GIVE UP!!! Hang in there, the BEST is yet to come!! You won't regret it, no matter what. You'll look back on all this and say, "just had a few hoops to jump through, but I feel sssooo much better now".~~Sincerely, Yourdivaness