Jamie M. 21 years, 9 months ago

Dovie, talk with your PCP about anxiety meds. You do so sound a little panicky (I have had severe Panic Disorder for the past 8 yrs an dknow that they are NOT fun.) They do have meds to control your anxiety. And I already spoke to my Dr about "the day before my surgery anxiety". He says he will help me there. I know I'll be freaking out that day! Good luck. Jamie

Cheila E. 21 years, 9 months ago

Thanks Dovie for you support, and I know things will be fine, but the weekend just seems so loooooong. :)

lovedove 21 years, 9 months ago

~ALS~ THANK U THANK U ..ALL WHO SENT ME EMAILS, ON MY CONDITION, I APPERICATE U ALL.. I WOULD LIKE TO INVITE U ALL TO LOOK AT MY WEB PAGE AND GIVE ME GOOD IDEAS OF WHAT ALL I CAN PUT ON IT.... MY ADDY IS ... HTTP://BLACKBURST.POINTLESSMEDIA.ORG/~LOVEDOVE/ PLEASE FEEL FREE TO SEND ME ANY IDEAS U HAVE ... THIS IS MY FIRST ONE, SO I DON'T KNOW THAT MUCH ABOUT IT....."DOVIE'S WEIGHT LOSS GARDEN"... HOPE U ENJOY IT... LOVEDOVE

jibjab 21 years, 9 months ago

Dear Dovie: It sounds like your having panic attacks. Maybe it would benefit you to be on a medication like Zoloft or Paxil. Your cyst on the back of your head sound harmless. Cysts are filled with fluid, it may drain on its own someday. Take Care, LUV NATALIE

lovedove 21 years, 9 months ago

GOODMORNING ALL....I HONESTLY DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH LONGER I CAN TAKE WAIT.... LAST NIGHT I WAS FELLING SO STRANGE...I HAVE FOR QUITE SOME TIME BEEN HAVING SPELLS AS THOUGH I AM PASSING OUT, I WAS IN THE HOSPITAL IN THE SUMMER AND THEY FOUND NOTHING, AND IT WENT AWAY FOR A WHILE, AND NOW IT IS BACK...LAST NIGHT EVERYTIME I WOULD GET UP AND START WALKING DOWN THE HALL I WOULD ALMOST PASS OUT, IT IS NOT MY B/P AND I HAVE A GOOD HEART...HAS ANYONE OF U EVERY EXPERIANCED THIS... I COME VERY CLOSE TO PASSSING OUT, BUT I NEVER HAVE.... NO IT IS NOT MY B/S EITHER...I AM SO AFRAID, AND SCARED THEY WILL NOT DO MY SURGERY BECAUSE I AM SO FEARFUL.. GOD PLEASE HELP ME... I FEEL THIS FOBE POUCH IS THE ONLY HOPE I HAVE FEFT......I HAVE A TINY CYST IN THE BACK OF MY HEAD... THE DR.. SAID THIS IS NO PROBLEM , AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT... I JUST KNOW I WAS NOT BRON WITH IT, AND YES I DO WORRY TOOO MUCH ,I KNOW... I GET SCARED THEN DEPRESSED THEN IT IS TIME FOR THE FRIDGE..... TO MAKE ME FEEL BETTER BUT INSTEAD I FEEL WORST ..I EAT AND THEN HATE MY SELF FOR IT... I NEED HELP, I FEEL LIKE I AM DROWNING IN LIFE. WITHOUT ANY WATER AT ALL...ANYONE THAT CAN TELL ME ANYTHING ABOUT THIS, AND HAS HAD IT HAPPEN TO THEM , PLEASE EMAIL ME... GOD BLESS U ALL, I LOVE U AND PRAY FOR U ALL TO HAVE A GREAT JOUNERY INTO THE LOSING LIFE...LOVEDOVE

cherokey55 21 years, 9 months ago

Dovie, I am 5'6" and started at 388lbs. I have seen others on here that have been where we are and now weigh 150,160 lbs. Im 4 1/2 months postie and have lost 76 lbs. I just started working out and am beginning to watch VERY closely what I eat so I can make it too. You CAN do it....just follow the rules= tons of water, protein first then veggies and fruit avoid carbs and junk foods as much as possible. Go to support group mettings and stick with AMOS. Good luck to you!!!

artistmama 21 years, 9 months ago

Hi Dovie, I am 5'10" and weighed about 300 pounds when I had a Duodenal Switch (bpd/ds). I am now at goal 18-months later and weigh 160. Please read my profile if you want more info. I kept a journal from beginning to end. I believe you will get down to at least 200 pounds, if not less, when you have this surgery. That would make you a size large. You really should consider the DS as it is more successful for people who are super morbidly obese, and it has a better rate of long-term success (keeping the weight off). God bless you as you do your research. Brenda

babybear67 21 years, 9 months ago

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lovedove 21 years, 9 months ago

I HAVE A QUICK QUESTION FOR U ALL.... I AM 5' 10" AND HAVE ALWAYS BEEN OVER WEIGHT... I LOOK AT SOME OF THESE GREAT PICS.. AND I SEE PPL AS BIG AS ME...MY QUESTION IS "I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW ,WILL I REALLY EVER BE THIS SMALL" U ALL LOOK WONDERFUL... I WANT TO LOOK LIKE U DO... TELL ME SOMETHING, BECAUSE I HAVE A LARGE FRAME, (OR DO I HAVE, NEVER SEEN IT) DOES THIS MEAN I CAN BE AT LEASET A MED... SIZE..LOVEDOVE

lovedove 21 years, 9 months ago

GOODMORNING ALL..~WLS~ GOD'S GREATEST BLESSING BE ON ALL OF U... SPECIALLY ALL THAT R HAVING SURGERY THIS WEEK....I TOO HOPE TO BE HAVING THE FOBE POUCH SOON...CAN ANYONE TELL ME ABOUT IT....HAS ANYONE HAD IT AND PLEASE LET ME HEAR FROM [email protected] THANKS, LOVEDOVE
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rockmart, GA
Location
40.3
BMI
RNY
Surgery
07/22/2003
Surgery Date
Jan 25, 2003
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March 12, 2003
441lbs
minus 179 pounds ! March 2004
262lbs

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