Darlene, If you had any idea how much you touch lives... well, you just have a beautiful spirit, and I wanted to say that even though I dont know you at all, I am inspired and greatful to have came across your profile. You have a beautiful family too, and I just know angels are gathered around you now. You are going to be alright. If you ever need to talk to me or others in my group, please visit us here: http://groups.msn.com/weightlosssurgeryfriends BIG HUGZ TO U sweetheart.