In the eyes of society they do view the different side of the issue very differently, such as Obesity they feel it is our fault, (why dont we just change our ways, how can we do that to ourself?) (Anorexia they view as poor people have a problom, who caused them to feel they need to cause themself harm? How can we help them feel better and secure within them self?) But to us (the person with the disorder) we have the same insecurities not same issues caused by our bodies but mental insecurities within ourselves. Anorexics do not view themselves in reality the way they really look so your friend may not know how society views her obese people are very aware of how people look at us and view us because we stay very aware of our suroundings. I have been on both sides an your friends comment was more than likely her way of saying "we are the same in different ways and we can help each other through this RIGHT?" Hope this helps, Nicole.