Amy, first and foremost God sees everything you are going through and will rectify the situation. I will pray with you to give you the strength you need to deal with your current situation. Unfortunately, he has not just started doing these things, the only problem is now you are probably begining to feel better about yourself and you see what is actually going on. Prayer avails much. I am also in your same situation, only thing is my changes are happening to me prior to me having the surgery. The thing is I have been doing some soul searching since I have decided to have this surgery and I realized that I allowed him to do these things to me because I had a low self esteem and thought I couldn't do better. Well I am staying in prayer and meditation and I know that God will work it out better than I ever could on my own. Just remember that you are not alone and God will bring you out. Blessings to you.