Justme 21 years, 4 months ago

Hi Amy, Good Job!! Good for you!!! Keep up the hard work of losing. You are doing wonderful. God Bless

JOLENE D. 21 years, 4 months ago

Hi Amy, WOW!! What a fantastic job!! Keep up the good work!! BIGGHUGGZZZZ

cinthygrady 21 years, 4 months ago

Amy, congratulations on a spectacular weight loss! I'm very proud of you. You're doing a great job!

honeybee1972 21 years, 5 months ago

I wanted to thank you for your kind words and support it means the world to me!! Everyone on this site has been so kinda and welcoming and I really appreciate all the wonderful people and their support!! I have a question how do I make my profile prettier with the backgrounds and pictures?? Thank you so much again!!! ((((HUGS))) to you and my prayers with you! Melissa...

Dr.Marcy 21 years, 5 months ago

Amy, I am so proud of you for standing up to your husband and being a strong woman. I am also very sorry to hear about your problems with your husband. You are a beautiful desireable woman. I am sending you prayers and love. You're not alone!! oxoxoxo

MommaAngel 21 years, 5 months ago

HI AMY Can I say (((((((WOW)))))) That is a awesome weight loss. You should be very proud of yourself. Keep up great job your doing.LORD BLESS

Dr.Marcy 21 years, 5 months ago

Amy, Great news on the weight loss!!! Keep up the great work. I hope all is weel with you and your husband. oxoxoxo

robinm 21 years, 5 months ago

Amy I will say a prayer for you and your family I ask you to remember that when someone is posessive of another person or item it usualy means they have a lot of insecurity about themselves this low self esteem can cause them to be very unhappy and abusive when they feel threatend please do not let any one in your life keep you from being healthy and happy just because of their own esteem problems we as humans tend to hoard save hide the things we treasure it is instinct. But we as humans do not deserve to be hidden away from others that love us or the world period you are not a possesion to be hidden away if your husband does not understand this or does not want to understand this he will only get worse with his abusive ways as you get more and more beautiful to the outside world. Please think of your self and the great things you deserve for your self and DO what is necessary to be Safe and HAPPY. Love intended Robin

vonnie2304 21 years, 5 months ago

Amy, first and foremost God sees everything you are going through and will rectify the situation. I will pray with you to give you the strength you need to deal with your current situation. Unfortunately, he has not just started doing these things, the only problem is now you are probably begining to feel better about yourself and you see what is actually going on. Prayer avails much. I am also in your same situation, only thing is my changes are happening to me prior to me having the surgery. The thing is I have been doing some soul searching since I have decided to have this surgery and I realized that I allowed him to do these things to me because I had a low self esteem and thought I couldn't do better. Well I am staying in prayer and meditation and I know that God will work it out better than I ever could on my own. Just remember that you are not alone and God will bring you out. Blessings to you.

Dr.Marcy 21 years, 5 months ago

Amy, Sometimes when we begin to change we begin to see the world differently. Ad you get stronger and your self esteem begins to climb you may begin to feel stonger feelings toward your husband. It might be that these feeling have been lurking there for some time but your low self-esteem and ,perhaps, even depression caused by morbid obesity clowded everything over. Since you are a Christain you might check into Christain family/marriage counseling. It might be that your husband doesn;t know that pain he is causing you. His prior trauma of growing up in a home filled with domestic violence might have shaded his good intentions. Please know that you are a strong woman and should be treated with respect. I'm supporting you. I think you may find that with honesty and open communication your husband may learn to communicate his feelings in a more gentle way. You're in my prayers.
About Me
Columbus, IN
Location
29.5
BMI
RNY
Surgery
06/18/2003
Surgery Date
Jul 01, 2002
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