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MomOffTheBench
on 2/2/26 7:32 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Monday menu?

Good morning, everyone! I hope you all crush your day today. My plans involve decorating my WNBA "Woman Cave," taking the kids to basketball practice, and hopefully squeezing in a quick workout. I'm also doing research on which weight loss surgery is the best tool for me and looking for a Bariatric Psychologist.

Today's Menu:

Breakfast: Savory "Everything" Oatmeal

Lunch: Red Lentil & Sweet Potato Dal

Dinner: "Lightened Up" Shepherd's Pie

QOTD: My plans for February are to find a bariatric surgeon, cook more healthy recipes, stop drinking, attend more of my kids' basketball games, and be an even better Mom.

Melody P.
on 2/2/26 6:22 am - Amarillo, TX
Topic: RE: What's on your Monday menu?

Good mornin y'all.

I've got an appointment in Lubbock with my orthopedic surgeon today. Hopefully the last for a while. I may have to go back for my hips eventually. It being in Lubbock makes it less likely for me to seek more help. It shouldn't but it does matter. Esp when my mom is *****ing incessantly about each trip. I hate it too but sheesh.

We'll leave around 10, get gas and drive by the bank. Then head on down there.

i need to do some things around the house but I have there more appointments this week. One freakin day off. Next week isn't much better. I even have one on my birthday next week. My least favorite office to have to go to. The doctor is great but they are always overbooked.

i'm feeling pretty down but I'll persist out of spite damn it.

QOTD: I need to just survive it. If I want a dessert on my bday I have to make it and I have to decide on the orange almond cake or a meringue-less orange meringue pie. I am leaning toward the cake but I also don't want to have to make my own stuff. I guess I should just get over it. I see the rheumatologist on the 12 and 27 I think. I'm guessing testing then a follow up, my pcp visit ins on the 25th. Mental health provider on a day that week. Ugh. So many doctor visit!

B: egg burrito and coffee

L: ???? Prob a protein bar of some type

D: since we'll be home kind of late maybe just a chimichanga



ladygodiva1228
on 2/2/26 5:11 am - Putnam, CT
Revision on 02/04/15
Topic: What's on your Monday menu?

Happy Monday Gang!! Yesterday was the only day it was actually really cold outside. I made a Mississippi Pot roast but used a pork shoulder instead of beef. I came out pretty good. Irvin and I shoveled a path for the gas man to deliver gas and when I went grocery shopping Irvin got the bobcat running and did a bunch of snow clean up in case we get more snow.

We have training 3 days this week at work and next Thursday we have our second waterwash on the other boiler. Then we have to get the plant ready for a BAU audit at the end of the month and next month we have our first outage of the year. Things are already ramping up at work.

QOTD: What are you plans for the month of February? Some of mine are getting the veggie seeds started. I did plant tulip bulbs that I had picked up on clearance last year but didn't get them in the ground so I put them in pots until Spring. Finish organizing in office and basement.

B: coffee and protein shake

L: pork shoulder

D: soup and salad

Hitting the Y for weights and treadmill.

Have a great day everyone!!!

Dr. Sanchez Lapband 9/12/2003
hw305/revision w280/cw197/gw150

Revision from Lap Band to Bypass on 2/4/2015 by Dr. Pohl

    

ladygodiva1228
on 2/2/26 4:27 am - Putnam, CT
Revision on 02/04/15
Topic: RE: What were the first 'exercises' you did when you were still over 400 lbs

If you have access to an indoor pool water exercises are great as the water takes the pressure off of joints. If not you either get hand weights or use canned vegetables to do arm exercises. Youtube have a bunch of different videos for people who are unable to do exercises in the traditional way.

Dr. Sanchez Lapband 9/12/2003
hw305/revision w280/cw197/gw150

Revision from Lap Band to Bypass on 2/4/2015 by Dr. Pohl

    

MomOffTheBench
on 1/31/26 1:52 pm, edited 1/31/26 1:52 pm
Topic: What should I expect during the Evaluation at 400+ lbs?

What should I expect during the Evaluation at 400+ lbs? I have a lot of grit, but I want to be prepared. Did they focus more on your food history or your future goals

Melody P.
on 1/30/26 11:47 am - Amarillo, TX
Topic: RE: Finally Friday's Menu

Afternoon y'all.

we had a water main break down the road during the morning. So our water was dirty and the pressure was VERY low. It's fixed now and I was able to shower so I feel human again...we'll sort of ha ha.

my eating is kind of messed up lately. Not bad per se but I need to cook more which I've been avoiding. I made some cranberry beans that I put up in the freezer. I am thinking about making some soup to put up too.

my shoulder is feeling pretty good but the main incision has been leaking on and off. Today while putting my bra on it rubbed it and it started leaking milky bloody liquid. I see my surgeon Monday. Hoping it's not infected but I may have to take antibiotics...booo.

QOtD: I use both. A lot. A favorite is smoked paprika from a Mexican company that I get at a certain grocery store here, I also use their fajita seasoning that has no salt. I love spices and herbs. My mom does not. My next pot of beans will be different! More spices as she doesn't eat them much either.

B: eggs, ricotta and coffee, crackers with cheese dip.

L: veggies made great cornbread, popcorn and chocolate toffee pistachios

D: tbd. My niece, Riley, is spending the night tonight. I may just do a pp shake


bracelet I made today



MomOffTheBench
on 1/30/26 11:33 am
Topic: What were the first 'exercises' you did when you were still over 400 lbs

I I want to be active like I was when I was playing high school basketball, but my joints hurt at this weight. What were the first 'exercises' you did when you were still over 400 lbs?

MomOffTheBench
on 1/30/26 8:21 am, edited 1/30/26 12:22 am
Topic: RE: Finally Friday's Menu

Good Friday, everyone! I hope your morning started better than mine. My sister and I were on our way to Sally Beauty to get supplies and pink dye for my mohawk when I slipped and fell on a patch of ice in my driveway. Luckily, I wasn't' hurt too badly just a little embarrassed!

The plan is still on: I'm doing my sister's hair today, and I'll be dyeing mine either today or tomorrow. Then, tomorrow, I'm taking the kids to a sports card show!

Todays Menu

Breakfast: Overnight Berry & Greek Yogurt Parfaits

Lunch: Rainbow Pasta Salad

Dinner: Sheet Pan Lemon-Herb Chicken & Veggies

QOTD: I definitely do use spices and herbs when cooking to add flavor

ladygodiva1228
on 1/30/26 5:39 am - Putnam, CT
Revision on 02/04/15
Topic: Finally Friday's Menu

Happy Friday Gang!!! Today and tomorrow are going to be potential record-breaking cold conditions. I had to get boots for Meisha yesterday because the cold was just too much for her feet. She is none too happy about them but realizes that her feet don't hurt when she's out in the cold. A little good news about the weekend it looks like the snowstorm is going to miss us and stay out to sea.

I never told you all that Irvin and I went to this very amazing herb store on Saturday to get some Blue Lotus flowers that the shoppe owner had ordered for us. The little store had so much stuff I could have spent hours in there looking at everything. We ended up spending a little over $100 on four different kinds of teas, Lions Mane mushroom powder, dried elderberries, Goji berries, Hogwarts smudge stick, crystalized ginger, Korintje cinnamon, Super greens powder and 5 bags of Blue Lotus flowers. She had stuff that I've never even been able to find online. We will definitely be going back. I currently have some of the Blue Lotus infusing in some white wine. In ancient Egyptian time Blue Lotus was found to have several medicinal properties and is still used today like helping with anti-inflammation, better sleep, and immune issues. I'll let you know how things go in a couple of weeks when its ready.

QOTD: For those of you who cook your own meals do you use herbs and spices? Many of you who have been around for a while know that I grow several different herbs along with garlic. I love to explore and experiment with different flavors and will find natural herbs or spices that will give a sweet or salty or even spicy taste flavor to a dish.

B: coffee with collagen

L: meatballs with sauce

D: baked sole with spinach

We braved the cold last night and went to the Y for a yoga class and tonight we will do our weight circuit.

Have a great day and weekend everyone!!!

Dr. Sanchez Lapband 9/12/2003
hw305/revision w280/cw197/gw150

Revision from Lap Band to Bypass on 2/4/2015 by Dr. Pohl

    

ladygodiva1228
on 1/29/26 12:01 pm - Putnam, CT
Revision on 02/04/15
Topic: RE: For those who had a high starting weight: How did you handle the 'embarrassment' of starting slow?

There is no embarrassment to starting slow you are taking the steps you need to be healthy. Everything starts with baby steps to eventually reach the goal that you want. Yes, there will be ups and downs, but in order to get where you want to be you have to start somewhere even if it is a slow start.

Dr. Sanchez Lapband 9/12/2003
hw305/revision w280/cw197/gw150

Revision from Lap Band to Bypass on 2/4/2015 by Dr. Pohl

    

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