Renee I hear you. I have a 9 year old, and there is so much that I can't do with her. It breaks her heart as well as mine. Fortunately I have friends and relatives who take her to fairs, stuff like that. I have my consultation next Wednesday. I imagine I will have surgery in November, however I wish it was tomorrow. I was unemployed for 5 1/2 months just went back to work with a former employer. It is hard just to walk 100 yards from my car to the office. I really get winded. I have 2 bad knees, and probably will have to have new joints put in in the next few years. Renee you are not alone, and feel free to e-mail me. Take Care and Love Mari Seattle