Hey Dawn! Before the surgery is to me the hardest part, because no matter what people tell you, you are still gonna worry, be nervous, and want to consume everything that you can. I know because I did. I am now almost 4 weeks post-op, and I have not missed food a bit. I have had a couple of hard days, like Superbowl Sunday when the guys in my house had every type of junk food in the house and the smells made me want to kill them. It is good that your family is trying to change their habits to help support you, as well as to benefit themselves. I can tell you that I, too, was an emotional eater, and everytime I was upset before, I would run to the closest Taco Bell and spend almost $10 and make myself happy again. Now when I get upset, I either watch TV, or call someone to talk it out. Don't let anything hold you back, because you are doing this so that you may have a healthier, and smaller body. There will be temporary setbacks, and you will get upset sometimes, but just pray, pray, pray, and don't let anything get you down or hold you back, and try to remove yourself from potentially upsetting or uncomfortable situations. Do what your Dr tells you to do, TAKE YOUR VITAMINS, and I hope that your surgery goes well, and that you have a speedy recovery. Please keep us posted!!! I am just an e-mail away!