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butterjoy
on 7/15/09 7:34 am
Topic: RE: OT- Bra shopping (long)
Wow,  I was really glad to read the complaints.  I have had a heck of a time trying to find a bra to fit me also!  A friend told me to go to Victoria's Secrets and they would actually take measurements of  your "girls" and help find a bra to fit comfortably.  Is this true?  I have not gone there yet but, plan to soon.

JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 5/30/09 8:42 am
Topic: RE: Off topic - had surgery...

Did you miss me?  Well, I am back.  I sure missed all of you.  Number one:  I am 127.2 pounds almost to my goal of 125 pounds!  I had to have surgery last week.  Was in the hospital for five days.  My surgeon let me me go home on the sixth day.  I was thankful that he is also the one that did my gastric bypass last November, 2008.  Anhow, I am still sore but, getting better every day.  Take care and God bless you!
Always,
JOY

Here is the information on what caused my problem and why I had surgery. My surgeon also did a colon resection.  I hope it explains it. No, it was not caused by my gastric bypass surgery.  Just something that has happened over the years.

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A rectocele (pronounced /ˈrɛktəˌsil/, REK-tuh-seel) results from a tear in the rectovaginal septum (which is normally a tough fibrous sheet like divider between the rectum and vagina). Rectal tissue bulges through this tear, into the vagina, as a hernia. There are two main causes of this tear: childbirth and hysterectomy.

Symptoms of rectocele

Mild cases may simply produce a sense of pressure or protrusion within the vagina, and the occasional feeling that the rectum has not been completely emptied after a bowel movement. Moderate cases may involve difficulty passing stool (because the attempt to evacuate pushes the stool into the rectocele instead of out through the anus), discomfort or pain during evacuation or intercourse, constipation, and a general sensation that something is "falling down" or "falling out" within the pelvis. Severe cases may cause vaginal bleeding, intermittent fecal incontinence, or even the prolapse of the bulge through the mouth of the vagina, or rectal prolapse through the anus. Digital evacuation, or, manual pushing, on the posterior wall of the vagina helps to aid in bowel movement in a majority of cases of rectocele.

Causes

It can be caused by many factors, but the most common is childbirth, especially with babies over nine pounds in weight, or rapid births. The use of forceps is more likely a marker for the vaginal injury, than a direct cause of the tear. Episiotomy or lower vaginal tears play little role in the formation of a cystocele. The risk increases with the number of vaginal births, although it can also happen in women who have never borne a child.

A hysterectomy or other pelvic surgery can be a cause,[1] as can chronic constipation and straining to pass bowel movements. It is more common in older women than in younger ones; estrogen which helps to keep the pelvic tissues elastic decreases after menopause. Another cause which is sometimes overlooked in younger women is sexual abuse during childhood.

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 4/4/09 12:10 pm
Topic: RE: UPDATED PICTURE
Thank you!  Yes, I am short also, 4ft 11 inches tall.  Most of my adult life I was short and round.  I am very thankful to be healthy again.  I had laproscopic gastric bypass.  I have no regrets at all.  The only thing I worry about is gaining weight so, I will have to watch my food intake.  I do wish you the best of luck on your upcoming surgery.  Please let me know how it went.

JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 4/4/09 6:11 am
Topic: RE: UPDATED PICTURE
Wow, thank you Char.  That makes me feel great!  I am very thankful for the rny surgery.

JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 4/4/09 6:08 am
Topic: RE: UPDATED PICTURE
Thank you Melody.  I feel wonderful!

JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 4/4/09 1:04 am
Topic: RE: UPDATED PICTURE
Thank you for the compliments!  It simply amazes me just to look in the mirror and see a new body with actual curves.  I feel terrific!

JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 4/4/09 1:02 am
Topic: RE: UPDATED PICTURE
Thank you Jackie!  I do feel wonderful!

JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 4/3/09 10:38 pm
Topic: RE: UPDATED PICTURE
Just to let you know that I updated the picture of the various stages of my weight loss in my profile.  Please take a look.  I have 20 more pounds to reach my goal.

JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 3/8/09 4:35 am
Topic: RE: I DID IT!
I GOT MY CENTURY CARD!  THANKS KATHY.

I LOST 61 POUNDS FROM SEPTEMBER 2008 TO THE DAY OF MY SURGERY ON NOVEMBER 3 2008.

SINCE THE DAY OF MY SURGERY TO TODAY, I HAVE LOST 59 POUNDS. 

THIS MAKES THE GRAND TOTAL OF 120 POUNDS!!!!  YIPPEE!

OF COURSE, I STILL HAVE MORE TO GO BUT, I AM SO HAPPY AND FEEL GREAT!

JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 2/19/09 6:06 am
Topic: RE: Return of Citracal Creamy Bites!!!!!
REALLY?  I THOUGHT THE WHITE STUFF WAS PART OF THE CALCIUM.  DOES IT TASTE AWFUL?

THANKS,
JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 2/9/09 3:34 am
Topic: RE: Salads
DO YOU HAVE TO COOK THESE VEGETABLES FIRST OR JUST DRAIN AND MIX IN BOWL?  ALSO, I WAS TOLD NOT TO EAT CORN OR PEAS BECAUSE OF THE "SKIN" CAN CAUSE TROUBLE, IS THAT TRUE?

THANKS,
JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 1/27/09 4:52 am
Topic: RE: Tooo funny. . . . check this out for a laugh
THAT SOUNDS LIKE SOMETHING I WOULD DO.  IT IS FUNNY AND EMBARRASSING BUT, WHAT CAN YOU DO? IT HAS GOTTA COME OUT...
JOY

..Fart In Elevator

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 1/19/09 12:01 pm
Topic: RE: Spanx!!

WHERE DID YOU BUY THE SPANX?  I AM UNABLE TO FIND ANY THAT FITS ME RIGHT CAUSE OF MY "APRON BELLY".

THANKS,
JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 12/18/08 9:24 pm
Topic: RE: Protein samples

MELOPENS, WHERE DID YOU BUY THE "NO-TASTE PROTEIN POWDER"?  I WOULD LIKE TO TRY IT.  THE OTHER PROTEIN POWDERS MAKE ME GAG AND NAUSEATED.

THANKS,
JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 12/17/08 10:18 pm
Topic: RE: Launched!

HI,
I REALLY LIKE THE NEW LAYOUT.  NOW, IF ONLY IT WOULD KEEP THE COLOR, FONT, AND SIZE CHANGES I MAKE WITHOUT HAVING TO DO IT EVERYTIME I SEND A NOTE.  I AM STILL EXPLORING THE "NEW" STUFF.

THANKS,
JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 12/13/08 9:36 pm
Topic: RE: I NEED HELP

SINCE I AM ONLY ABLE TO EAT 2 OUNCES PER MEAL, IT MAKES IT DIFFICULT TO EAT ALL THE PUDDING I MAKE IN ONE DAY.  I WAS ABLE TO TOLERATE THE PUDDING AND PROTEIN POWDER.  IS THE PUDDING CONSIDERED A LIQUID?  I STILL GET CONFUSED AND AM LEARNING MORE EACH DAY.  THANK YOU FOR TAKING THE TIME TO HELP ME!

JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 12/13/08 9:31 pm, edited 12/13/08 9:37 pm
Topic: RE: I NEED HELP
I DID THAT ONCE.  I USED TO REALLY LIKE BANANAS.  FOR SOME REASON MY TASTE BUDS HAVE CHANGED.  THANK YOU FOR TAKING THE TIME TO HELP ME!

JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 12/13/08 9:02 pm
Topic: RE: I NEED HELP
 I AM HAVING A LOT OF TROUBLE GETTING MY PROTEIN AND DRINKING PROTEIN DRINKS (BODY FORTRESS, KROGER WHEY & SOY PROTEIN, PROTIDIET PROTEIN, NEW WHEY PROTEIN BULLETS, ETC.) IT MAKES ME NAUSEATED AND IT REALLY WORRIES ME.  DO YOU HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS?
THANKS,
JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 11/25/08 8:57 pm
Topic: RE: THANKSGIVING
HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL OF MY FRIENDS!  MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
JOY
           

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 11/25/08 6:11 am
Topic: RE: my final food list for the day...courtesy dailyplate

YES, IT DOES.  THANK YOU!  I AM SORRY IF I CAUSED TROUBLE.

JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 11/24/08 8:21 pm
Topic: RE: Holy muthaf*cka that hurt

SO FAR THE PAIN HAS NOT BEEN TOO BAD FOR ME EXCEPT IN THE CENTER OF MY CHEST.  I MAKE MYSELF BURP AS MUCH AS I CAN, LOUD BURPS TRYING TO GET THE AIR/GAS OUT.  THANKS FOR THE SUGGESTIONS.

JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 11/24/08 8:18 pm
Topic: RE: my final food list for the day...courtesy dailyplate
I USED TO USE THE DAILY PLATE.   CAN YOU TELL ME HOW MUCH OF THE FOODS YOU ATE PER MEAL? FOR EXAMPLE, 1/4 CUP OF COTTAGE CHEESE, ETC.  I AM LEARNING TO RECORD MINE.

THANKS
JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 11/21/08 3:21 am
Topic: RE: How the hell is it I am still a size 14?
I HAVE HAD PROBLEMS WITH MY SIZES ALSO.  MY "APRON BELLY" MAKE IT DIFFICULT FOR ME TO PUT PANTS ON THAT WOULD FIT IF IT COULD GO UP AND OVER THE BELLY.  IF I GET THE PAIR THAT GOES OVER THE HANGING BELLY, THEN THE PANTS DROOPS FROM MY BOTTOM AND CROTCH.  SHEESH.  IT IS HARD TO FIND SOMETHING THAT FITS ALL OVER.

JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 11/18/08 9:34 pm
Topic: RE: What are you doing/eating today? Wednesday!
I WAS GETTING READY TO ASK THAT SAME QUESTION lol :)  WHAT IS TVP?

THANKS
JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

butterjoy
on 11/17/08 9:41 pm
Topic: RE: Comfort Food recipe-- Chili and Cheesy Cornbread
THAT LOOKS DELICIOUS!!  DO YOU HAVE A RECIPE BLOG?  MAY I READ IT?

JOY

* Our family is a circle of love and strength. With every birth and every union, the circle grows. Every joy shared adds more love. Every obstacle faced together makes the circle stronger. The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.   
     I have reached my goal! Praying angel:9896

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