Question:
I'm having my first appt. with my Doctor to request a referral for WLS

What can I say to him to convince him that this is the right thing for me and to give me the referral to a Surgeon. This is a new Primary Care Doc and I don't know how he is aobut the WLS. My insurance ins Prudential HMO and they said they will ok it if he says it's medically necessary. I have HBP, degenerative arthiritis,and weigh about 345 at 5'5. I'm 38 years old with a 3 year old son that I want to play with and see grow up. I just have this terrible feeling that if I don't do this surgery i won't live too much longer. Any suggestions with what to use in my defense? Thanks, Shelli    — Shelli M. (posted on February 21, 2000)

February 21, 2000
Hi Shelli, my pcp was totally against it, and after talking to her and letting her know that I was very determined to have this done she started my referals to the different doctors I had to see in order to see a surgeon. Make sure that you go to him with lots of confidence in your decision, and let him know that you are determined. You know that this surgery will benefit your lifestyle and the longevity of your life, so let him know that you are fully aware of that. Also, be prepared, be well informed and assure him that you are well informed about wls and the benefits and risks. But most of all be confident. Good luck, you'll do great! mary
   — Mary C.

February 21, 2000
Go prepared! Do you homework and let him see you know about this surgery and the risks. Have a lists of the diets you have been on both on your own and doctor supervised. Good luck and let us know how it goes.
   — Rebecca D.

February 22, 2000
Take as much information regarding weight loss surgery with you as possible and make him take the time to go over it with you. My primary care physician knew squat about weight loss surgery and basically told me it would leave me with diahhrea for the rest of my life and would be a big mistake. Luckily I did not need a referral for surgery and did it all without her. The PCP that I have now has a working knowledge of the surgery and has been very supportive.
   — dboat