Question:
Am I Eating too Much!?!?!

I have never been able to eat as much as I did today. For breakfast I had about 1/3 of a pack of instant grits. For a snack b/t lunch, I had a string cheese thing. At Lunch, I had 2 small pieces of pizza. For snack that afternoon, I had another string cheese. And finally, for dinner I had a WHOLE can of cream of chicken soup, and later another small piece of pizza and 1/2 a cup of sugar free ice cream! I didn't hurt at all today! I'm just scared that my stomach has stretched, I am only out 3 weeks. I drank all my water today and I am down 32 lbs. I just need a little encouragement and advice! Thank you!    — Robyn P. (posted on August 5, 2002)


August 4, 2002
To me that seems close to grazing. Our pouches are small, but they do empty after about an hour. You can eat the same amount of food you eat at every meal if you do it every couple of hours. I would just be careful of how many times a day you eat. It doesn't seem like you eat that much at one sitting, but maybe try to only eat 3 times a day.
   — Jennifer Y.

August 4, 2002
Hi, I kind of agree with the grazing thing, except that some surgeons suggest 5-6 small meals each day. A few things that I would suggest you watch...soup, especially a cream soup, should not be concidered a meal. IT goes through to fast and does not have alot of protein in it. It will count as a liquid though. Also, lots of fat usually. The soup for dinner is probably the reason that you ate a whole meal later. The amounts you are eating are pretty normal. If you are concerend that you are eating too much, keep track on Fitday.com. That will tell you your calories, fat carbs and other nutrients. Then you can take a print out to your doc or dietician and they will evaluate it. Good Luck!!
   — Vicki L.

August 4, 2002
Is it time for your period???? I do the same thing each and every month for a day or two then when I do start I have to MAKE myself eat for 3-4 days....Just a hormone thing I guess....
   — Joi G.

August 5, 2002
Hi R ~ I hear all the time of people being concerned with stretching their pouch or whatever - I personally have never thought twice about it. Even if it stretched out to maximum density - its still over 3/4 smaller than it was before. I still can't down a piece of pizza - I can eat the topping off of the top of one or two pieces, if I eat really slow and carefully but that wasn't able to happen until I was about 3 to 3 1/2 months out but everyone is different. I have difficulty with bread, in general. The crust is what gets to me. Your weight loss is good though and you'll be amazed how good you start to feel. Try not to waste your time worrying about the "what ifs" of the surgery - it can be overwhelming afterwards and that's certainly not what we went through all the pain & agony for. Enjoy your new life - believe me, your stomach will certainly let you know what is okay and what is not okay. Good luck to you.
   — Lisa J.

August 5, 2002
Sounds like your quantities are fine except a whole can of soup??? That's a lot, but since it's soup, I guess that's probably not bad. I avoid soup(doctor's orders). My doctor says solid food, as permitted by the schedule he gives, will keep you satisfied longer and provide you with more nutrients. If you are able to eat pizza, try eating something that is more substantial like baked fish or grilled shrimp. Just make sure you chew really well. Try fatfree refried beans to get some protein. The day's menu you described seems a little low on the protein side and high in fat. Fat makes me dump just like sugar. Everyone is different...I couldn't eat more than 2 medicine cups of any kind of food (I used the cup from a Nyquil bottle)until about 3 months. I still eat less than a cup of food at a time, but I do eat 6 times a day. That's because I need the extra calories...I workout with weights at least 4 times a week for 1 1/2 to 2 hours at a time. I've lost all my weight and don't have any reserves to call on so I have to eat freguently to keep my metabolism going. If you aren't already, start exercising...it makes the world of difference in how you feel and will help speed up the visibility of the wonderful weight loss you've already experienced. 32 lbs. in 3 weeks is awesome!
   — Teri D.

August 5, 2002
I don't think you are eating too much, but I'm surprised that you are eating solids so well at only 3 weeks. Most of us were on pureed types of diets until at least the 1 month mark. Fat is perfectly fine in our diets, but perhaps you can choose some other foods for variety, or maybe you are already! What about scrambled eggs, or refried beans, or tuna salad on crackers at this stage? I don't think a whole can of soup is alot as it is liquid and moves right thru you. Do you supplement some protein, with protein shakes/drinks? Your water is good, now up the protein, and add some variety, perhaps lowering the carbs a little.
   — Cindy R.

August 5, 2002
Congrats on your loss! We all are so different, but I really couldn't eat a whole piece of pizza so early out. When I tried within the first 3 months, I usually just kind of ate the cheese and sauce and sometimes couldn't chew it all the way and had to spit it out in a napkin. Sounds gross! I do think it sounds like a little bit too much solid food so early out. At 13 months post-op I recently ate two small pieces of cheese pizza and kind of felt guilty that night as I have only eaten 1 piece up to that point. I do tend to eat more around my period as the poster noted. Maybe the bottom line is, even if we can eat that much early on, should we? I hope that doesn't sound too harsh, yet you asked for opinions and ideas. I would look into the protein supplements as they do fill you up and give you mega-protein and make you feel like you are doing good things for your body. Best Wishes!
   — Molly S.

August 5, 2002
Wow! I don't know if you'r eating too much, but I don't know how you can. I don't think I could have managed a bite of pizza at three weeks. I'm five now and still wouldn't do it. I have to admit, I follow my doctor's nutritional advice.. and pizza was not part of it at three weeks. I was just getting off pureed food at that point. I'm good about following the rules, it makes me apain in the ass, but I'm sure it helped my stomach to heal. I try to avoid carbs as much as possible except some fruit every couple of days and some wheat bread once or twice a week. good luck. I think the answer is, maybe you didn't eat to much, but you might want to watch the quality of what you're eating.
   — Lisa C.

August 5, 2002
It does seem like large portions to me. I'm a fan of the 5-6 TINY meals. The other thing that is bothering me is that this is ALL carbs. There is no actual FOOD here. I am not anti-good carbs, but anti-sugar. Check the sugar g in your s/f ice cream. If I ate this in a day, I would be RAVENOUS. Carbs beget carbs. We're on clear liquids for 4 weeks, so I can't compare with what I did. But you might want to try something with some substance to it, so maybe an egg for bfast and 2 T of grits or a sausage with some grits. Some fat & protein helps SATISFY and cut the "need" for more carbs. Perhaps half a string cheese & a good grain cracker? Or part of a beef stick with half a string cheese? See what I mean? And of course, from my perspective, I saw no protein supplement in there, and that is your ultimate appetite control tool.
   — vitalady

August 5, 2002
Don't panic, Robyn! Remember that the soup you've eaten is a liquid and will pass right through the pouch. Ice cream melts when it hits the pouch and turns to liquid, so it also passes through. Everyone who has this surgery stresses out that they're eating too much. In order to stretch the pouch you'd be so uncomfortably full on a daily basis. Be happy that you're losing weight at a great pace and that you're feeling good. Congrats! - Mike
   — Michael N.




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