Question:
5.5 Months Post Op- Does depression come with the territory?

I'm 5 1/2 post op. My weight loss has been great. I've lost 80% of my weight, and I've had no problems or complications. But, I've been feeling a little depressed. I have been very strict with myself in regards to my 'diet', as per docotors recommendations, so I do feel like I'm kind of on a diet. I wonder if that's what the problem is? Or am I just frustrated because I want to just hurry up and get to my goal? I have nothing to complain about, but yet I feel depressed. Is it because I have fond memories of when I was this weight before (and of course we all know they are sugar coated), and my current life isn't meeting my expectations? (I was young and single the last time my weight was down, big party time for me)....I don't want to change my life, I've got a great husband. Is this common? Thank you!    — Stacy L. (posted on March 25, 2003)

March 25, 2003
To me- this sounds like a hormone induced depression- and you sound ABSOLUTELY 100% normal believe it or not- the "I am not really depressed but I am depressed" scenario screams my name. I never could pinpoint a REASON for my being melancholy- but I was. Majority of my life was great, pre-WLS and after WLS, but still the depression.... Speak with your Doctor; as some anti-depression meds may get you through this rough spot. Please just think of this as a NORMAL WLS side affect.
   — Karen R.

March 25, 2003
Stacy, in addition to the chemical / hormonal changes you are experiencing, you are also now having to deal with self image issues. Most of us who have been MO have an identity that is pretty tied up in how we look. Now that you are looking closer to the "norm", who is that person in the mirror???? I have a bit of an identity issue myself after my 150 pound weight loss. It feels odd, because I am happy, greatful, all of that . . . but I don't know who I am supposed to be anymore. If you have a local support group, go! If not, you may want to hook up with others in your area and start one. My thoughts are with you . . . Jo Duodenal Switch 10/8/01 . . . Dr. McConnell, OHSU . . . -150 pounds so far and loving life.
   — Spunkwoman S.

March 25, 2003
Hi Sharon, I had my surgery on 9/30/02, and like you I am happy with my weight loss and no complications or problems, ALL things should be great, but there not! I am hoping it's just a stage and it will pass (hopefully quickly) I find myself daydreaming all the time. Rose
   — Rose B.

March 25, 2003
Very common. I've read numerous posts from people that went through post-op depression. I'm going through it right now! lap rny 2/20/03. Depressed, but not really depressed - I characterize it more as being 'blue'. Sure hope it passes soon! I'd call the doc now but have an appointment on April 4th, so decided to just wait till then. Good luck and don't be one of the post-ops that loses their mind (in my opinion) and does fall into the party scene, affairs, etc. It is not worth it! ~Renee~
   — jnc