Question:
Any ideas or letters I can look at for ideas?

Hello...I am actually Lori's husband and I am trying to write a good convincing letter of support for her to take to her surgeon TODAY (so I need help SOON). They require her to bring a letter of support stating the reasons they support you and the steps they will take to help you obtain your weight loss goal. Well...my mind went blank. If anyone has ideas or even a copy of a letter I can look at for ideas on how to word my letter I would GREATLY appreciate it. Thank you in advance!    — Lori L. (posted on May 6, 2002)

May 6, 2002
You could include thoughts such as: The effects you see morbid obesity has on her You will do everything you can to help her succeed Both she and you agree the WLS is for her Thangs of that nature...I wish I could be of more help Good luck KC
   — KCAllen77

May 6, 2002
I think it is wonderful when you have total family support. The support of a spouse is so vital to the success of it all. I know that my husband was so supportive from the start. He never had to write a letter though. But here are some ideas. Maybe start out with the fact that you love her no matter what she weighs. That loosing weight is very important for her. That you have seen her struggle with the problem for so many years and all that you want is for her to be happy and healthy. That you are willing to take an active role in her post op care with meal planning and a structured exercise plan that the two of you can do together. Good luck!
   — Virginia N.

May 6, 2002
I would suggest a heart felt because we love her and she suffers greatly due to the obesity, and she deserves a healthier life. If you have researched wls with her, I would explain your knowledge of it and thats how you intend to support her
   — Lisa W.

June 6, 2002
A good support system is very important, especially when you are having such an extensive operation like the Gastric Staping. The Gatric Stapling operation is a serious operation. There will be many life time changes, which will entail the cooperation and support from those we love and are close to. This entire procedure (operation) will help us to lose weight but our participation will also be necessary. It is important to have a clear understanding of this procedure prior to the operation and to research the procedure extensively. In order to understand the inevitable positive and negative changes that will occur to our bodies, we must begin with a positive and well informed mind. When the mind feels good, the procedure will go smoothly and the after affects will also be easier to handle. My advice to anyone considering this operation is to develop a positive outlook and to research this topic extensively.
   — msbevhills

February 4, 2003
THIS QUESTION COULD ONLY COME FROM A MAN.(JOKE) I THINK JUST BEING SUPPORTIVE TO HER BY ASKING IF SHE WOULD LIKE TO GO FOR A WALK EVERY CHANCE YOU GET, AND TELL THEM THAT HER HAPPINESS IS YOURS SHOULD BE ENOUGH. NOT TO MENTION YOU WANT HER AROUND FOR AS LONG AS POSSIBLE. SO YOU ARE WILLING TO HELP AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. HOPE I GAVE A HEAD START.
   — ELIZABETH K.

May 11, 2005
Hello I'm Lori's husband also, and I to am at a lost for words when it comes to seeking help for my Wife Lori.It really pains me cause I want to help more than anything in the world.I try to be supportive with my thoughts of advice but I know that words can only go so far with an issue as serious as this,then what do I (WE) do.? Lori know's that I would move Heaven and Earth to keep Her healthy. It's really sad that the taxes of working people can pay for those who can't afford it (And that's fine,we should help if we are able to).I think that insurance companies should take care of those who are keeping them in business despite there points of selfish gain. Sorry about that. The reason i support My Wife number one I want her to live her life to her fullest potential, she deserves to have this surgeryif that's what it's going to take.ot do so I'll make sure She has whatever the Dr. says she has to have i.e. rest, excercise, proper portion of food at schduled times, follow-up Appointments. Suppport groups are important to the patients and thier families maybe this is the start of such a group. Thank you for sharing and caring enough to share a part of yourselves for the good and health of our fellow citizens..
   — chari39