Question:
Have any of you made out a living will?

My surgery is next month. When my husband had throat surgery earlier this year we were asked at check-in time whether or not he had a living will. Have any of you done this? What does it cover, organ donation for instance? If you have a living will where did you go to get started? How far in advance does it need to be done? Does it need to be registered anywhere? Thanks for you input. Sharyle    — Sharyle L. (posted on June 13, 2000)

June 13, 2000
My hospital didn't require it, but they gave me a quick form to fill out. I found it helpful.
   — Paula G.

June 13, 2000
My hosiptal had a booklet that they provided me when I went in to do my pre-testing for surgery. It explain everything and also had a living will in it that all i needed to do was fill out and have two witness to my signature. You might ask your hospital if they have such a booklet. Lots of good info.
   — ann A.

June 13, 2000
I made out a living will before I entered the hospital and gave a copy to a friend and my sister as I was not comfortable giving a copy to the hospital. They cannot, by law, force you to do it. It did bother me, but I personally thought it necessary. I live in New York State, so I went to the site for the New York State Bar Association where I found a form that was free. You might try searching the web for your state's bar association. If you need it, here is the web address I used. http://www.nysba.org/public/livingwill/livwilleng.html Good luck to you!!
   — Martha O.

June 13, 2000
I had wills, living will, power of atty, etc. done years ago. I'm glad it was all updated and in place, but yes, it's a good idea to have your wishes down in writing. In the recent death of my mom, it was important for them to know at what point to let her go. She & my dad had discussed it in length and there was no hesitation or doubt in anyone's mind exactly what her wishes were. And as it happened, no "decisions" had to be made. However, it was comforting to KNOW her wishes and be sure the legal angles were completely covered, as well, so that they would be carried out.
   — vitalady