Question:
HAD SURGERY 11MONTHS AGO,JUST FOUND OUT IM PREGNANT!!HELP

Please dont come down on me,Ive gotten it from my family already.in 11 months ive lost 96lbs,ive never been so healthy & happy.Now im embrassed to tell my doctor & afraid for my health.I want my pregnancy,but i am considering an abortion for heath reasons.I need straight,postive advise before i lose my mind.    — mairah2 (posted on November 15, 2011)

November 15, 2011
Hi! First of all, I'm NOT a doctor and I strongly encourage you to contact your Bariatric Surgeon and Family Doctor. I'm certain that you are not the first person this has happened to in this type scenario. Secondly, I'm sorry that your family has come down on you for whatever reasons. However, PLEASE do not make any sudden rash decisions regarding your pregnancy. Remember that your mother gave you life! There is a reason why things happen and sometimes we don't have all of the answers. There is a famous singer (I think Carnie?)who went through this same surgery and got pregnant and delivered a healthy baby. You may want to google. I will pray that everything works out for your best interest and that you will be able to move forward regardless. God bless you!
   — angelicrealtor

November 15, 2011
You are not the first person that has gotten pregnant after surgery. I have had friends that have had surgery that got pregnant within months. It's amazing when you lose weight how fertile you become! I think many of us believe that we have an inability to have children, and then when a pregnancy occurs after the weight loss, it is a huge shock. If you choose to go through the pregnancy, I am positive that your MD will be supportive and help you through the pregnancy. You will need to see your nutritionist so that you have a strong understanding of what to eat so you remain healthy and maintain the healthy lifestyle. My heart goes out to you because it is a tough decision; however, you will make the best choice for you. If you should worry about anyone coming down on you, it's you. Commend yourself for the positive changes you have made. You are at the beginning of a journey - not the end. 11 months is nothing to sneeze at. I'm almost 6 years out, and boy has it been a roller coaster! Good luck to you!! Prayers coming your way!
   — Nicki F.

November 15, 2011
My friend got pregnant about the same time you did. Just call your surgeon, I bet he will say you will be fine.
   — FSUMom

November 15, 2011
Like and earlier poster stated others find they get pregnant after bariatric surgery. Happened to my GF 2 years after her gastric bypass......The decision ultimately has to be yours...not your family, friends or OH posters but when you list your reasons you only state "health" reasons but never that they are "life threatening." Most health problems can be maintained safely throughout a pregnancy life threatening cannot. Remember just as in pregnancy it is a decision that will be with you throughout your entire life.....just make a decision you can live with. Will keep you in my prayers.......
   — karensaporito

November 20, 2011
Its been 2 years this month since my surgery and I found out in May that I got pregnant in Mexico earlier this year. I'm having my baby boy in 40 days from today. If you want this baby... let the choice be yours. What everyone else has to say doesn't matter. Good Luck
   — TheresaHal

November 25, 2011
First of all Congrats!! :) Second, Tell your doctor so you can begin to plan your pregnancy! My sister got pregnant 6 months after her gastric bypass surgery and my nephew is perfect! :) It happens! :) I am a year and a half out from my sleeve surgery and my husband and I are starting to talk about baby number 2! :) I was at my goal weight for surgery then found out I was pregnant! :) You are now in a healthier place and even though we cannot eat a lot, you can still be healthy and pregnant! :) Again, Congrats! :)
   — Monica H.