Question:
i am 4 weeks out and only on high potein diet meats and cheeses what do i do

everyone that i have talked to says i can eat soft foods like mashed potatoes and unsweeted applesauce , green beans stuff like that my doctor and nutrtionsist says no way only meats and cheeses or i want loss the weight what do i do ???? the not drinking when i eat is killing me i dont know what do to about that 1 hr before and 1 hr after is awfull will someone help me so i can loss the weight .. i am 4 weeks out and have only lost 27 lbs i need help ... thanks for listening    — MeandMyself (posted on April 9, 2006)


April 9, 2006
YOU must follow your doctors advise. He is the only one u should be listening to. Those of us that have had the surgery at this point in our journey can make adjustments, but until you get out at least a year you need to follow them. Why are you in such a hurry? You did not put all this weight on in a month and for sure you will not take it off in a month. I hope you are doing WLS for the right reasons. Remember this is going to be a life long journey.
   — Steve Cohen

April 9, 2006
yes i am doing it for the right reason i was just needing to know if i am doing right , because of what people around me have said and there has been people here this morning that has help me with that and not have questioned my goals and for why i done the surgery if you most know i had the sugery done to feel better first and then to look better i know i can not do it in a week or two and i know i didnt put it on in a week or to but thanks anyway
   — MeandMyself

April 9, 2006
I think the most important thing you can do is follow only your Dr.'s instructions for what is allowed. Every Dr has his/her own idea on how they want things to go. My sister had surgery over five years ago and I had it five months ago.. it amazes me the difference of opinions between the two surgeons.. but it is what my surgeon has instructed me to do that I follow. I agree so much with the other poster.. weight didn;t come one overnight and 27 pounds is such a great beginning.. hang in there remember this is a lifetsyle change nothing tempoary about it at all.. before you know it you will feel and look 100% better.. Hang on my friend... it is going to be a hell of a ride!
   — KimY

April 9, 2006
Wow! Almost 30 pounds in a month...that's great! I understand how you feel. I need to eat protein first always, but every "pure protein" ie, fish, chicken, eggs...I try is soooo hard getting down. Soups, and soft blended things are much easier. How about try some cheeses, they are protein and soft, or cottage cheese, plain yogurt with splenda, maybe avocado? Ask them if these things are OK, they are all good protein sources, and easy to get down. Hang in there!
   — Kayla

April 9, 2006
Hi Angela, not drinking before or after eating was extremely hard for me in the beginning also. I used to drink during my meals prior to WLS. It will get easier and will become 'second nature', I promise : ) Have you asked your surgeon when you can eat soft foods? Your surgeon probably wants you to get used to getting protein first. All surgeon's have certain plans for their patients to re-introduce food. Along with protein, two things that worked for me to help the weight loss are drinking at least 64 ounces of water and walking. I lost about 27 the first month like you and it kept going down each month. I lost about 120 pounds in 5 months and have maintained for about 3 months now. All my pain in my joints and back are gone. Lupus is in remission. I feel young again. Just hang in there and it will keep coming off. Talk to your doctor and ask them when or if you can try mashed potatoes or applesauce. I am sure your motivation for WLS is valid. I also was looking forward to feeling healthier but I also love looking so much better too. You are doing a great job. It will come off. I was impatient at times during my weight loss. I think it is part of human nature to want it all off now. Now my goal is to keep up with protein, water, and walking. I have worked on reframing food in my life. I eat to live now. I used to live to eat. You are more than welcome (as all are) to e-mail me if you want to ask questions or share whatever might be going on. WLS is not for wimps. Take care. SMILE, Jenna
   — jstatkus

April 9, 2006
TO ANGELA S.!HI MY NAME IS AIMEE C. FROM NJ!OK FIRST OFF YOU SHOULD NOT EAT CHEESE BECAUSE IT WILL SWALLO UP IN YOUR STOMACH AND YOU WILL GET SICK AND THE SKIN ON THE GREENBEANS WILL NOT GO DOWN RIGHT.YOU CAN DRINK WHILE YOU EAT BUT JUST DRINK A LITTLE BIT OF MILK AND THAT WILL HELP THE FOOD GO DOWN.AND DO NOT EAT BREAD BECAUSE IT WILL SWALLO IN YOUR STOMACH AND YOU WILL GET SICK.ALSO DRINK A PROTEIN SHACK 3TIMES A DAY AND YOU WILL LOSE THE WEIGHT AND ALSO WALK.I LOST ALMOST 90POUND I NEED TO LOSE A 100 MORE POUNDS BEFORE MY 1 MONTH ANNSIVERY.BECAUSE I HAD MY WLS DONE ON MAY 18TH OF 2005 AND I AM ALMOST AT MY 1 MONTH ANNSIVERY.AIMEE IN NJ.
   — BABYPRINCESS

April 9, 2006
Aimee, I would say the last poster is right about the bread in the beginning. But as far as veggies (greenbeans) ect...is good for you. Meats, cheeses definitly are VERY good for you they WILL NOT swell in your stomach. That poster is wrong. however if you eat tio much of it it may cause you to feel constipated. I have NEVER had that problem..I am 3 years out as of yesterday. I have never regained any weight and am still losing. I just recently had my tt and hernia repair. Please feel free to e-mail me if you like. Cottage cheese is an excellent source of protien. Nuts, beef jerky (soft kind) avacado, tuna, shrimp (boiled) canned chicken or boiled.there are lots of Goood protein out there. I myself bought all the powders and whatnot but it is still under my cabinet. I found it easier to eat the food. And snack on protein when I want something else. Jenniffer in Missouri a.k.a. Jonesin
   — Jonesin

April 9, 2006
my 2 cents worth. I was told to have liquids for two weeks, very soft foods for the next two weeks, and then soft foods for two weeks after that. I did not have anything very solid until about two or three months after, and that consisted of 1 tablespoon of mashed potatoes watered down like crazy. I was not able to eat meat for almost 2 years, chicken is very hard still (almost 3 years), and I never tried a salad for a year. Everyone is different but most would agree that you should eat like a newborn baby. They are not starte on "junior" semi-solids until they are about six months. 27 pounds in one month is AWESOME. I did 11 to 13 pounds a month, so 27 is pretty darn good if you ask me. Little by little I ended up below my goal and lost 148.
   — Missy H.

April 9, 2006
Angela, wow what an array of answers to your question. What is important? To listen to your surgeon and nutritionist....that's it. At the stage you are on, please do not follow others post-op eating plans, your surgeon gave you this plan for a reason. The 27 lbs loss in 4 weeks is great, think about it that almost 1 lb per day, have you ever had this type of success before? I can relate to the drinking situation, that was probably one of the biggest things to get use to post-op, again there is a reason, with the small quantity of food you are allowed and to maintain saiety, you shouldn't drink, you want the food to remain in your pouch for as long as possible. I promise you this, if you are conscious of what you eat and follow your surgeon's goal, you will lose weight and be much healthier. Best wishes ~~ Dana
   — cajungirl

April 10, 2006
of course do follow your doctors orders. Each doctor is different. Yes, the not drinking during a meal hurts me too. this is hard. But so far I am managing. Weight loss is different for everyone. I am only one week out and have just lost 5 lbs. I really thought It would be more. All I can say is keep drying. I am eating pureed food. Anything I can put in a blender or liquids. I just want something to eat.......... I will pray for you and you pray for me. All we have to do is get thru this initial healing time.......we can do this............ Smile and keep trying...........Sounds like you are doing great. Brenda J Ure
   — [Deactivated Member]

April 10, 2006
First of all, you aren't missing anything by not having mashed potatoes and applesauce. The best weight loss is achieved (at least initially) by getting your body into ketosis-- you do that by restricting carbs (like you'd find in applesauce and potatoes) and by increasing protein (so that you lose fat not muscle mass). Your surgeon appears to have you limited to foods that are unambiguously high protein with next to no carbs. If the saltiness of the foods is bothering you, think about soft-boiled, or soft scrambled, eggs, ricotta and the Stallone puddings. Just remember to talk to your doctor (or his staff) about the foods you want to incorporate. Good luck.
   — SteveColarossi

April 10, 2006
I am only 5 days post-op and on the same high protein diet chicken,fish,cheeses and am having great success w/ about 1.5-2 oz per meal and trying to get in liquid as well. I am supposed to be taking in 64 oz of liquids per day, but i am getting about 40 oz at this point. your best bet is to talk to your Dr. or his nurse or the nutritionist...to keep things mixed up try different seasonings,etc...i like to use valsic sugar free pickle relish in my chicken (like a super mini chicken salad) LOL they also carry sugarless canola mayo that is not bad. 27 lbs in 4 weeks sounds like you are doing great !!!! keep up the good work and don't stress. I know we all want to eat right, but all of our doctors have different suggestions to some varying degree...just think? when was the last time you ate 1/4-1/2 C of food per sitting...i think you'll keep losing. The reason for not drinking w/ meals is if you eat then drink you will flush your food through which will cause you hunger earlier. I know it's hard....i used to alway's drink and eat @ the same time. I just need to keep my will-power in tact and time the intervals~i keep a food journal and jot down what i eat & drink throughout the day...maybe this would benefit you, and could also be used as a tool of reference when speaking to the DR. Email if you'd like to talk ~Hope i helped a little-even though i am such a newbie :) LOL
   — tiffany E.

April 21, 2006
Here are the most important reasons not to drink with your meals, according to my nutritionist. 1)When you drink with your meals, the water washes the food though your stomach and out into your intestines so quickly that you get very little absorption of the nutrients. 2) Because it does that, you can start having problems with hunger, and get into eating more than 3 meals a day- NOT a good habit! As for weight loss, I understand 25-30 pounds the first month is considered ideal! Good luck. Jenny1
   — Jenny1




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