Hi, Pamela. I knew you were a beautiful person upon reading your kind and much needed words of encouragement. It has been confirmed that you obtain inner and outer beauty. Don't change a thing about your spirit. I wish you many years of bliss and prosperity! I will be praying for you. I can't wait to see new pics of You, Tim and the kids post-op! Have no doubt, I truly believe you will survive and suceed! Be Blessed!