Hi William. Congratulations! Your day is coming soon. I had my surgery last August 20th, and am now 125 lb slimmer, and it feels great! Though coming through the surgery can be difficult, the pain eventually leaves and your health returns. Then, you can really roll around the floor with your son. I would be glad to offer you any support (and answer any questions you may have) that I can possibly give during this journey. Please relax during these 'last days' of waiting. I'm just a State away (SC)--so again, feel free to contact me anytime. Much care, concern and friendship in WLS. Lori Ann Koestler