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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 3 months ago
New? Pre-op? Lurking? This is for you. - www.obesityhelp.com/forums/ds/4280788/Repost-Request-Advice-for-Pre-Ops-with-Links/
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 3 months ago
Why didn't y'all tell me I would be having this mu - It was my turn to plan/pay for the date (my idea and I am glad he is man enough to let me). I picked a HORRIBLE movie lol so I now have a little more respect for what the guy must...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 3 months ago
What ever happen to courtship? - To piggyback on a couple of interesting threads and posts. My guy has apparently decided that this is ALREADY a relationship where we have sex rather than date. NOT. I sent him ...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 3 months ago
(Single) GIRL POWER - Long story short version:
I've been in transition from NC to AL for 8 months (after ending a relationship a year before that). I moved a few things to an apartment in AL last F...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 3 months ago
Update again - Well the date last night wasn't all that it could have been. But I am still liking this guy an awful lot.
He has issues. And so do I. He is 52 and set in his ways. So am I.
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 3 months ago
Yes I changed my mind and here's why - The first date was really a disaster as far as I was concerned. I bitched and moaned and complained loudly, especially here. And to all of you who patted my hand and said "next" ...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 3 months ago
A guy can send flowers...what can the girl send?? - After my disaster date I gave him a second chance. A LONG talk and then another date and I am quite smitten.
I like to do thoughtful things but I'm at a loss. I'd like to send...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 3 months ago
STDS and how do you handle them. - So do you just always use a condom? Do you test?
I was actually looking forward to some years of not having to worry about birth control (looking for some upside to menopause...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 3 months ago
When they say negative things about overweight peo - Everyone I know knows I have lost weight. So this date was the first time I have been around someone who didn't know that I have lost weight.
When he said "I am not attracted t...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 3 months ago
Dating sucks and I quit. - He was on time. Dinner was EXCELLENT and easy enough. Music after dinner was great. As soon as we got to my house he obviously wanted to go to bed.
What is with people? I do...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 3 months ago
What is the protocol? - Ok you folks with some experience here. What is the dating (in your 50s) protocol? Are you supposed to kiss by date X and have sex by date Y? What are the rules here? Or at lea...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 3 months ago
First post DS date. First date since forever. Re - I don't know how it could have gone much better. He is nice. He's shy and a bit of the nervous sort. I'm not sure why he's not remarried or had a long term relationship since hi...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 3 months ago
OT: My first post DS date... - I broke up with Tom 20 months ago and haven't had a date in that whole time. About 4 or 5 months ago I put up profiles on a couple of free dating sites and got a couple of respons...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 3 months ago
We haz a date... oh no... what do I wear? - He did call. He was nervous like a school boy. He didn't say a single thing that raised a red flag. And I was LOOKING for them.
We are meeting at 12:30 at a Mexican Restauran...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 3 months ago
ruh ro I sent a guy my phone number yikes - A nice sounding (by email) guy found my profile on okcupid from where I had posted it a couple of months ago and messaged me. He goes to the church that my former mother-in-law he...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 3 months ago
Please list your go-to protein foods to help the c - We've done this in the past and it was REALLY helpful to me at the time. Can we do it again? Just list your protein go-to items that you rely on as a big part of your DS diet.
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 4 months ago
For newbies and pre-ops and some folks who need to - News flash. Not every DSer who posts on this forum gives accurate information. I know. You have just dropped your jaw, or spit your no carb meal at your computer screen or falle...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 4 months ago
Single safety or paranoia? - My old neighborhood in NC had a HOA who published a directory of the neighborhood every year with names, kids names, phone numbers, emails, etc..
My new neighborhood is a very s...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 4 months ago
Protein Cake Shake Recipe - Several folks from this forum have asked for the recipe. This is KaylaB's discovery on the DS forum but I make it about 4 times a day so I share it a lot.
How I make it:
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 4 months ago
New? Pre-op? Lurking? Or returning after an absenc - This is for you:
www.obesityhelp.com/forums/ds/4280788/Repost-Request-Advice-for-Pre-Ops-with-Links/
~Becky
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 4 months ago
OT: what is the usual procedure if you find a lump - I found a lump/bump/cyst on my breast a couple of weeks ago. I'm going to see my pcp on Thursday. I'm just wondering what to expect? Will I be referred out? To what kind of doc...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 4 months ago
I'm wearing my skinny jeans...just sayin' the DS r - I've been under a ton of stress. A ton. In my entire life (which is long because I am old as dirt) I have ALWAYS gained weight when I am under stress. ALWAYS.
I noticed in t...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 4 months ago
New? Pre-op? Lurking? This is for you. - www.obesityhelp.com/forums/ds/4280788/Repost-Request-Advice-for-Pre-Ops-with-Links/
~Becky
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 4 months ago
Hiring help off Craig's List - I know I could save some money by finding help for some big projects off Craig's List. I called one guy today and he just sounded like a stoner to me. He gave me a reference to c...
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beemerbeeper posted a discussion topic 13 years, 4 months ago
I'm TWO. - This is really my birthday. So much changed that this date is a lot more meaningful than the "I lived another year birthday."
I weighed 143.5 today. Start weight 262. Lowest w...
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09/30/2009
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Jul 10, 2008
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