HI THERE WLS (WEIGH LOSS SISTER) WELCOME! I AM ALSO PRE-OP BUT THINGS ARE MOVING RIGHT ALONG. MY HUSBAND ALSO HAS IT IN HIS MIND WHEN I GET SMALL, I AM GOING TO LEAVE HIM. I TOLD HIM TO CHILL OUT, I AM HOLDING OUT FOR THE LIFE INSURANCE! I WISH YOU WELL ON YOUR JOURNEY AND I LOOK FORWARD TO HEARING FROM YOU.