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Maridee B. 21 years, 7 months ago

Toni - May God bless your journey to the "losing" side and throughout your life. I pray that God will grant wisdom to your surgical team. ~~*~ HUGS~*~~

Brenda B. 21 years, 7 months ago

Toni, My prayers for a safe surgery on Friday and a speedy recovery! I look forward to hearing from you on the board soon! Brenda-Ks

Debbie B. 21 years, 7 months ago

Toni - Best wishes for an uneventful surgery and a speedy recovery. May God hold you and your surgery team in his precious hands.

Karen N. 21 years, 7 months ago

Best wishes and extra prayers for smooth surgery and recovery. A positive mental attitude is your best preparation! You'll do great with this life-saving tool!

Justin F. 21 years, 7 months ago

Congrats on getting a date and getting approved. Good luck on your upcoming suregry and I hope you have a speedy and painless recovery and best wishes on the rest of your journewy.

Justin F. 21 years, 7 months ago

Congats, you are on your way to the losing side. Good luck on your upcoming surgery and I hope you have a speedy and painless recovery and best wishes on the rest of your journey.

Jenny R. 21 years, 7 months ago

I have a few humble suggestions for your upcomming surgery... Try not to gain too much weight before surgery Make sure you buy everything you need for post op ... foods ect, having it all at the house makes it easier to manage after surgery for everyone... Peace of mind knowing you have what you need, you dont need to take too much to the hospital, something comfy like a robe is good, some magazines or a book... I spent a lot of time sleeping. i am a popsicle junkie now.... they are amazing Your tastes will change... I hate to eat right now ... so My best advise is to enjoy everything you put in your mouth now ... there is a grieving process after surgery when all you are eating is liquids... YOU wish you could eat, you crave, foods ... want something crunchy ... yummier ... not sloshy! Buy something roomy and comfortable to wear.... I wore my nightgown for 5 days.... I washed it every other day and put it back on.... it was comforting and feelt good You wont have a lot of energy after surgery ... make sure you have a good support system in place. People to pamper you.... Your body will hurt Not just where your incision is ... but other places too, the anesthesia makes things inside you uncomfortable... They pump a lot of gas into your abdomen... Find someone who gives good foot rubs. They are very relaxing and comforting. I didnt really enjoy foot rubs before... But It was a place on my body that didnt hurt... and its great for circulation. You may find yourself discouraged when others eat around you... I know I do. or when food commercials come on TV.... and it seems like every comercial has food in it~~ Just go to another room. I am a chef by trade ... so this is a bit of a shock to me. This not liking food thing. I think though when I can eat more "normal" foods it will be easier. Take as much time off as you can... Suggested re-coop time is 6 weeks. A few days before surgery I cut 8 inches off my hair and donated it to a cancer charity "locks of love" It felt great, and Its much easier to take care of now... Not saying this if for everyone... But it sure did help me My last little bit of advise for now... You can tell yourself that, hey - I know I am going through this life changing operation ... and yeah... My new life is going to be so different. You can think that in your mind all you want... BUT You wont FEEL IT Till you wake up on the other side. Hope this helps! Huggs Jenn

Sharon Neva 21 years, 7 months ago

TONI~~ Absolute MUSTS for me at the hospital were~ Chapstick and slip on slippers. (I have a complete list on my profile page) ~ But, if you're not picky about shampoo and toothpaste, etc- that is provided by the hospital. I didn't use anything that I took other than the Chapstick, slippers, and fan. I didn't feel up to reading or listening to my CD player. You don't really need to take a whole lot, in MHO.... ~~BEST WISHES ON YOUR WLS JOURNEY~~ May the world hug you today with its warmth, and love.....Pray it whispers a joyful tune in your heart.....And may the wind carry a voice that tells you there is a friend sitting in another corner of the world wishing you well!~~

babybear67 21 years, 7 months ago

<p>I read your post about cleaning for your mom' visit. That is too funny, we call my mom the inspector and No I will never be able to clean clean enough for her. But I love her dearly and am so thankful that she is coming to take of me.</p><p>I Said a Prayer of Healing for you -- body, mind and soul -- That God would bring you comfort to restore and make you whole. I prayed you'd be surrounded by His awesome love and healing, Dispelling all anxiety or pain you might be feeling. Finally, I prayed you'd be uplifted by His grace, and feel yourself enfolded in the peace of His embrace. Wishing you all the best on your journey for a healthy happy new you. Godspeed, Maureen in TX, RNY 06/23/03</p>

kylakae 21 years, 7 months ago

Toni, congratulations on your upcoming surgery. May peace and love surround you on your journey and carry you along safely. Remember to drink your water, take your vitamins, walk daily and most importantly, be gentle with yourself along the way. Lastly, don't forget to stop by occasionally and update your profile. As you know, our profiles provide a lifeline to others embarking on this journey. You never know who you might inspire!