Thank you Carol for the post. And best of luck on your upcoming surgery!!! I do not know if you are religious, but I will let you in on a secret. Give all of your cares and worries to God. Sounds easy I know, but trust me...it was the only thing that got me through my surgery. I went into surgery completely at ease. I would have been a complete wreck otherwise.
As for eating, I am eating what is "allowed", but I am not eating anywhere NEAR the amount they want me to eat. I should be getting in over 100 grams of protein a day. When you figure the BEST protein shake only has 35 grams per CAN (12 oz, which you will find to be a LOT) and most meats only have 7 grams per serving, you can see my dilemma. But I will keep pushing on as best I can. I know of others that had the same problem and are now "normal" after a year post-op.
Again, best of luck. I pray you have an uneventful surgery and recovery. God bless.
PS - Since I am only a few weeks ahead of you, keep checking out my page. I will keep updating it as things develop. Maybe it will help you see what is to come (or help you avoid things for the better).