Oh Linda, I am so very sorry to hear about your son. My heart absolutely sank and broke in two when I read your post. I am so sorry hun. If you ever need to talk, please feel free to email me. I am here for you. Please, take care of YOU, you just had surgery and know with the loss of your son and your emotions running ragged right now, it can be difficult, but please, take care of yourself. We don't want you to get sick from not getting your nutrition and water. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this time of sorrow. May God give you the strength you need. (((Hugs)))