Question:
being honest has anyone who has had the surgery had more fuffilling erotic sex
hi iam 6 mos post op and i find sex much more hotter when i ejaculate now it feels much more enjoyable and is so tender around the gentials does anyone else female or male get these new same sensations especially being given oral pleasure — Kenneth B. (posted on October 6, 1999)
October 6, 1999
ummm errrr ahhhhh welll aaaaa (guess I'll call my surgeon give him
another reason to hurry with a surgery date) LOL
— Victoria B.
October 6, 1999
ALL I CAN SAY IS... OMG.. HAHAHHAHA
I hope there is a place that has the answers to sex questions like this.. I
mean I know it's a kind of legit question to ask but I was very Taken aback
to read that
— [Anonymous]
October 6, 1999
I ... uhhhhh ... welll ... Hmmmmm. This is a very leitamate question,
though I was rather astounded by the graphic nature. To speak frankly
however, I will say, intimacy is far more enjoyable both physically and
emotionally now, than when I was 200 lbs heavier, and I'm sure it will be
even more enjoyable in every way when I get the final 150 lbs off. I think
part of the reason intimate relationships are more satisfying is 1) I'm no
longer settling for what I can get, ie. he likes me, therefore I like him.
I am more choosy now, and have a wonderful mate to whom I am engaged now.
and 2) I think sex is more satisfying because I'm not as self conscious as
I was before. I feel more free to explore and enjoy. Best wishes to you
and your partner!
— Sherrie G.
October 7, 1999
Personally, I enjoy making love much more now, because I am
not so ashamed of my body. I used to hide under the covers
and have it so dark, I couldn't see a thing, which was how I
liked it. Now, 91 lbs after surgery, I light candles, and make
love to my new husband like there is no tomorrow!!
— Lori D.
October 7, 1999
OMG...........ROFL.........good on ya Kennith!!! I have got to call MY
surgeon and get my date moved up. I bet he has never heard this excuse
before!! LOL........I hope my mom isnt reading this. :0
— Lori W.
February 2, 2000
Surprised to see so many people so prudish about a real question? We
really are still a puritan nation... how silly to be embarrassed about
something as real and important as sex!
I'm now down 82 lbs and sex is much better... all the areas that were
harder to reach are now more accessible and I can only hope things get
better and better, as they seem to be doing...
— Peter W.
February 2, 2000
Way to go! :) "Things you Always Wanted to Know ... But Were
Afraid to Ask!" Although I am STILL Pre-op... I know
this surgery and weight loss will definitely aid my sexuality. How can it
not... I believe it will help to shed some inhibitions. As well as
allowing me to be more...Hmmm, how shall I delicately put this...Free
Spirited... I believe it will only become more inhanced as time and
weightloss passes due to increased sensations as well as penetration. My 2
cents worth!
— Dottie H.
February 3, 2000
Absolutely! I have lost 52 pounds and I feel so much better!
My Husband is buying silk nighties and high heels for me now and
I am one third of the way to my goal..
Frequency had increased dramatically too!
— G. Tyner
February 5, 2002
I have to say - before surgery - my libido was non-existent. Since the
surgery (I've lost 94 lbs since October 1, 2001), I am always sexually
aroused. I don't know if it is a physical thing or just mental - but my
husband says that he has NEVER seen me respond as he has since my weight
loss. I guess inhibitions sort of fly out the door when you don't have as
much weight - and things are easier to get to - if you get my drift :>)
I am ready at the drop of a hat (or whatever) and that makes him a happy
man!
— Cheryl H.
February 5, 2002
Well.... being single and unattached, I wouldn't know :-( I've been
crossing my fingers that I'll lose enough to find someone even willing to
have sex with me <g>. But I do know from the one time in my life when
I did have a partner and had lost a lot of weight...our sex life improved
dramatically. Not only that...I found I always dropped a pound or two
afterwards. Hmmmm....maybe I should start hanging out in bars instead of
looking into a health club.
— Cyndie K.
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