Question:
Can certain sexual acts be performed after surgery? Warning-Kind of explicit
With your "new" stomach is it possible to #1-Swallow when giving a man oral sex? Has it caused you to "dump" or any other problems? and #2-Have anal sex to completion without a problem? If anyone could tell me what thier own experiences are it would be greatly appreciated. — [Anonymous] (posted on June 4, 1999)
June 4, 1999
I didn't try doing any of these things immediately upon return home ...
however ... all of the above worked fine for me within a few months post-op
... and I still love them all!
— Sherrie G.
June 5, 1999
Oral wasn't a problem after the surgery! As far anal, I
wouldn't know!
Robin
— Robin C.
June 6, 1999
Re: busted tun
Jenny,
Hi. My name is Bev. Please don't be so hard on yourself. All of us probably
have an embarrassing moment, when something broke, etc. The worst for me
was in 1990. My husband, myself and 4 yo son went to Disneyland. We all got
on Dumbo, the 4yo so excited. The music started , the ride started
moving... all except our car, which wouldn't move at all. The operator
stopped the ride, and we had to get off. That was the most embarrassing
moment of my life! And to soothe my soul after that incident, we went to
eat. It took me 6 more years before I did anything about my wt. Now after
my RNY, riding amusement rides isn't embarrassing, just fun.
Best of luck to you,
Bev
preop highest 320
now 110
RNY 1996
— BJ K.
June 10, 1999
Yikes! Why would you want to....I'd take the surgery as a good excuse to
never do it again! LOL!
— [Anonymous]
June 10, 1999
RE: Is FAT a dirty word?
If I had been in that chat room I would not have been offended at the use
of that word, especially said by a "fat" person. Now, if I was at
the mall, weighing 320lbs and someone called me fat, I would be offended.
But I'll tell you an experience I had in AOL's gastro chat room. Two other
people were in there, one says hello, the other says who's the bitch?. I
signed off immediately and have never returned. Please tell me all chat
rooms aren't like that.
(\O/) blessings from Fremont, Ca. Bev.
— BJ K.
June 10, 1999
RE:Post Op life:Be Honest Now
From BJKlein7
Losing the wt. was the easy part. dealing with how people treat me now is
hard. I have learned who my real friends are. So many people became
friendly with me when I lost the wt., like now I'm socially acceptable. I
am the same person that I was back then, only my weight is different. I
wonder though how many of us use wt. as a shield against life- if we are
fat, then guys don't look at us. Now without my armour, I have men looking
at me, in a way that I'm not used to.There aren't any easy answers, but I
sure enjoy life now more than ever before. (\O/) Blessings from Bev.
— BJ K.
January 13, 2000
Hey, Isn't that considered protien? Just kidding, but that is a great
question! Alot of people don't like to admit to participating in the acts
described or others acts similar to them. GREAT QUESTION!!! I can't
believe that any ADULTS would be offended by such an itelligent question!
KUDOS TO YOU!!!
— ginariso
January 14, 2000
LOL this is so funny. This very question went through my mind the other
night. (Spit or Swallow brought on a whole new meaning) :) but I was too
shy to actually ask it. I am glad you had the intestinal fortitude (oh I
am full of it today) to bring this sensitive, yet very valid subject up. I
am glad to know that these particular activities should only get better
upon post op. Thanx so much.
— Lori W.
January 14, 2000
Either way, sp*t or sw*ll*w (still a prude, even after surgery), I would
(hypothetically) wait a couple of hours (if ever) after eating before
consider having any t*be steak. Post-op, it's easy enough to get the heaves
after a regular meal. I think it's unrealistic not to expect the same thing
to happen when you foolishly poke something else in your mouth.
— [Anonymous]
January 14, 2000
Yes to both questions..ENJOY!!
— Robin W.
October 30, 2004
I have been with the same man for 15 years. We met in High School, and
have been out one and only's ever since. I think we have tried EVERYTHING
you can possibly think of sexually. Some men actually prefer you swallow
and some don't really care if you spit. I have found that sometimes
spitting out right after is offensive to them. So just do it discreetly.
I love anal sex. I love it especially when sitting backwards on my husband
while he is sitting in a recliner, that has been very helpful for me. Hope
this helps. Anonymous
— sgirl
October 30, 2004
I've had no problem with either one <G>. Our sex life has gotten so
much better since i've lost 126lbs. Good luck to you, and ENJOY!!!!!!!!
— KellyJeanB
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