Question:
heres your chance!

okay guys- i am now a little over 3 wks. out. i was down 30 lbs. and now my scale sayz i have put on 5???? whats this??? am i doing something wrong? i feel FAT. will this go away? i too got the Unjury ordered, so i cant wait. i told another friend of mine i just cant get off- cottage cheese-r.beans-egg-etc. i love my crystal light i cant do just the water. omg please say this is NORMAL i dont like feeling this way. i keep telling myself it is ok--but is it? my stomach is STILL poofy... is this normal? maybe we do get paranoid but im really not liking this. i hope someone can put ease to my mind. Merry Christmas to you all. thanks kim    — kimcrain (posted on December 20, 2007)


December 20, 2007
SORRY FORGOT TO TELL YOU I HAD RNY ON 11-26-07 HOPE YOU CAN HELP!! KIM
   — kimcrain

December 20, 2007
STOP RELAX ITS NORMAL! I remember once gaing 8 pounds overnite, then it went away:) Its what you ate, water weight etc. Now before you start stressing record your neck and other dimensions cause one day you will plateau too. During plateaus you will see your biggest dimension loses.
   — bob-haller

December 20, 2007
Hi Kim, I am having the same down feelings you are experiencing and don't want any new food after just two weeks. I went to my surgeon today and he tells me that this is the lowest we are going to feel. I have a had time eating all they want me to. I am doing OK with the water, using Crystal Light like you, and I love Skim Mill now with Unjury Shake. My regular Doctor gave me a prescription for an anti-depressant because I am a guy that is never down. My surgeon says it is just my weight loss with the stress of surgery. I watched the Notebook on TV and go upset last weekend. I get depressed easily and what to just stay in bed. I am not tired, in fact when I get up I go for walks which I never did before. Stay away from the news and just get some friends to cheer you up. That seems to work for me. Also let them know you are feeling depressed and need there support. I wish you all the best. 30 Lbs is great. You have me beat and I had a RNY.
   — William (Bill) wmil

December 20, 2007
Completely normal! Although if I were to gain weight I'd freak 100 times worse than you are right now! Ugh...but your stomach still being poofey is very normal. Remember you just had MAJOR surgery and the gas that they pumped you up with, your body is still trying to get rid of it. It's a long slow process. Shortly after the 1st month you will wake up and realize you need to alter your clothes because your swelling totally disappeared! Hang in there...it does get better...Merry Christmas, good luck, God bless and welcome to the losing side!
   — crystalsno

December 20, 2007
make certain your getting your water in, wierdly dehydration causes fluid retention and thus weight gain..........
   — bob-haller

December 20, 2007
Hi Kim! I also had lap RNY on 11/26/07, we are on the last legs of our first month. I have lost about 32 lbs since surgery. I have been frustrated because I check the scale every morning and evening and it is wierd because for 2-3 days it was 325 in the morning and 327 in the evening. Then all of a sudden, it was 322 today. So I decided I am not going to get on the scale everyday - I will start getting on once a week. That way the loss will be more significant and I won't notice the little back and forth's. I've finally got my protein up to where it needs to be and am drinking diluted crystal lite to get my water up there. I know gaining a few here and there is completely normal and if you don't check the scale everyday you may not even notice that gain. Good luck, we're all in this together!! Congrats on the 30 lbs, more will come off soon!! I'm waiting for the day I can say my clothes are too big to wear - they are fitting better but not loose yet. Yay US!!!
   — itzmetami

December 21, 2007
Congrats! on your new life. I'm 8 months out and did freak like you when I saw my scale go the wrong way. You might also need to make sure you are getting some type of fiber. If you haven't had a BM, you will not loose much because your not having a BM. God Bless, Vanessa
   — Vanessa Dates

December 21, 2007
There are a variety of things that will make your weight go up and down like that.... hydration, water retention due to your cycle, bowel movements, how much you've eaten that day, etc. Also, if you are using one of those step on scales (as opposed to one with sliding weights like at the doctor's office), they can very easily become unbalanced. Don't stress too much, it sounds like you are doing wonderfully! You might want to ditch the scale and buy yourself a sewing measuring tape... you will most likely see a more consistent loss if you evaluate based on inches lost. Best wishes.
   — mrsidknee

December 22, 2007
Kim, I also had surgery on 11/26/07 (RNY) so it is good to see someone at the same part I am at. Hang in there! I think you are probably watching the scales too closely. I do the same thing and become a little obsessive about it. I have been very depressed and down since surgery. I think we just have to tough it out and do what we are supposed to and the end results will make us much healthier and happier people.
   — jewels-okla




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