Question:
Has anyone's husband or boyfriend complain, or thinks that just because your.....
losing weight, the size of your vagina is going to change. I really don't care what he thinks because I did this surgery to be healthy, and live longer but I am very curious if other women have come up to the same issues. Do you lose weight in your vagina, or does it stay the same regardless. If it did were the complaints for the better or complaints for the worse? — [Anonymous] (posted on October 27, 2001)
October 27, 2001
Peaking for me and my wife a MO couple we are looking forward to having
real sex. With both of us so heavy parts arent long enough. You know those
broad brested turkeys for thanksgiving have the same problem. Th4ey were
breed for big breasts but cant procreate.
— [Anonymous]
October 27, 2001
Hi. Sorry if this is a XXX answer...but I'll give it a shot. I have lost
over 100 lbs and am about 50 from goal. I have to tell you that the sex is
better than ever with my husband. I am more "flexible" and
penetration is deeper. As far as losing weight in your vagina...I don't
think so. As far as I can tell EVERYTHING on me is smaller...not sure how
that happened. My husband doesn't have any complaints ;)
— [Anonymous]
October 27, 2001
Big loss will turn you on ALL the time, he should certinally enjoy that...
— bob-haller
October 27, 2001
Believe it or not, my husband and I thought this same thing in the
beginning of my journey. But, to ease your mind, it didn't make my vagina
any larger. Instead, we now have deeper penetration and more intimate
moments because of the fact he can get closer to me. Losing weight not
only helps health, but it increases energy, and for me, losing weight
increased my sex drive. My husband got over the fear of hurting me and
enjoyed that little perk. LOL. Just relax, and let things happen. Let
yourself heal first and take things gently. It will be ok.
— Jo (Part 2) C.
October 27, 2001
I am hoping to have surgery and I sure hope it comes soon because my sex
life is definitely suffering... I know that losing weight would only make
it better. For once I want to be on top and not crush him or not be able
to move. Sure I can get up there, but my thighs are so big I can't go
anywhere! And when you're thin you can go shop at Victoria's Secret and
I'm sure he'd like that ;) I have a very loving boyfriend of two years and
he is a wonderful lover... I want to be able to please him as much as he
does me :)
— [Anonymous]
October 27, 2001
I did once read in a womens magzine that overweight women are
"tighter" in their vagina. However, I think all of the sexual
perks pointed out by the previous posters will far outweigh the benefit of
being a little more snug in there.
— PaulaM
October 27, 2001
Surprise him, exercise those muscles. Serously, you can tighten those
muscles, I was taught how to do this after having babies. Go pee, stop it
in mid flow, feel that squeeze? That's the target muscle. When sitting in
front of the puter or tv, squeeze it, hold it 10 slow seconds, release,
work up to 5 or 10 of these three times a day. Do the elevator, instead of
one big squeeze and release, slowly tighten it to the count of ten, each
count getting tighter, then slowly release the same way. Like any muscle it
will take 2-4 weeks for results, but once they start, he won't complain
about anything! (ps, this is called kegeling or keggels(not sure of the
spelling)
Hugs
— Becky K.
June 17, 2007
I so want to know the answer to this also.... can't wait to find out!!!
— Eilish S.
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