Darlene, I will share with you what was shared with me..I also had an open rny but that's all my dr does...one lady told me to put a chair next to my bed & use it to help me get in/out of bed. I only had bad pain when I was trying to get in/out of bed or the couch or chair..God's Blessings to you & I hope you feel better soon, I know that I just walked,walked,walked & more walking up & down the halls to regain my strength...Let us know how you do. Allison