Members Speak.....If you could, would you?
I did not come blindly to my decision to have WLS. I looked into it for many years, and very seriously for a year prior to having RNY.
I am very independent. I do not wait for others to hold my hand. I get all the resources I feel I will need when making a major decision. I make my choices with solid understanding under my belt. I develop a mental plan of direction and write down my course of action.
I prepare myself for the challenge ahead knowing I may run into some roadblocks along the way. I create a way out to overcome whatever obstacles I may encounter. If I find I need more resources, or I need to gain more knowledge, I actively seek it.
I do not make excuses. I know what I want and where I am going. I do not cry over a mis-step. I do not get others to join me in a pity party.
I remain positive, purposeful and upbeat. I hold myself to a higher standard. I do not care about what everyone else is doing. I have come to know myself and have addressed those secret places in my life we all tend to avoid.
I have always had a clear goal and plan and I have never swayed from it. I am very strict and strong-willed. My personality, tolerance, life experience and stamina are all part of the equation.
I know myself and my limitations. When I began this journey, I felt I was fully prepared mentally for any challenge I would come across. I put in a lot of time doing research, and I continue to educate myself as time goes on.
Same here Jenn! I wish I had done this surgery in my 30s or 40s. I've missed a lot of living because of my weight and health issues. I am very thankful I went ahead and paid for this surgery now (insurance doesn't cover any WLS). I now have a more active and fulfilling life and believe I have added at least 10 years to my life span!
would I do it again? In a heartbeat!!!!!
Absolutely!
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.
Having weight loss surgery was the best gift I ever gave myself. I have no regrets and would have it again in a nano-second. I used to regret not having it earlier in life but now I don't. I needed to come to a place in my life where I was ready to make the commitment to the lifestyle changes needed... I may not have been as resolved years ago.
~Michelle "Shelly"