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PeanutFreeMom
on 4/15/10 1:57 am
Topic: RE: I really need encouragement and suggestions
Hey Honey,

It's pretty normal how you are feeling.  You may be suffering from depression, because we have always used food to self-medicate.  Now that food is taken away from us as a coping mechanism, we have to find other things to replace it with.

I know it probably doesn't help to hear this - but it's actually a GOOD thing that you still don't like 95% of food.  That means your sleeve is working! 

Mourning the loss of food is an important part of our healing journey after the sleeve.  I hope you can find a way to accept your new reality and start to see this is as freedom from food, and not just a loss of food!

Hugs,
Mel
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 4/15/10 1:52 am
Topic: RE: 20 lbs weieght gain over 6m time
Hey Sweetie,
You might want to get your fasting insulin levels checked.  There may be metabolic reasons for the weight gain.

That said, it IS possible with our sleeves to gain weight if we are eating lots of easy-to-digest foods such as simple carbs and sugars.  Also, it's really, really easy to gain weight with high calorie liquids.  No matter what, you should completely restrict drinks with calories in them.

Hang in there!  You still have your sleeve, and you CAN do this!!!

Hugs


HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 4/15/10 1:13 am
Topic: RE: Do you eat more than 3 times a day?
Hey Baby Girl,
Did you get a chance to get your fasting insulin and blood sugar levels tested?
You may benefit from an rx for Metformin.
I have a pretty useful document that covers dietary guidelines for after the sleeve.  If you want a copy I can email it to you :)  Just PM me with your email addy and I will send you a copy.
I hope you are holding on ok - you've worked SO hard.
Hugs,
Mel
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 4/15/10 1:03 am
Topic: RE: NSV
WooHoooooo!!!!!!!!!  Nice Work!
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 4/14/10 1:40 pm
Topic: RE: OT: Need Career Advice (LONG)
Hey Hon!
I'm sorry you are stuck going through all this. 
I don't really have any advise because everything in the freezing, cold north is so different.  But from what I've read - my two cents (and that's probably what my opinion is worth!) is that unless the private sector job is one that you are really excited about and is one that you think you would grow personally in, I'd hold out for the other higher-paying state job, and then if you don't get that one, look more seriously at the private sector one.

But - wow - tough call!  I think no matter what decision you make - it won't be a wrong decision.

Hugs!
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 4/14/10 1:31 pm
Topic: RE: We are NOT normal...
Damn I love you Ms. Shell!

I just thought I'd post some of a work-sheet we've used in our support group about emotional eating.  It's tough, because we all use food to self-medicate. 

EMOTIONAL EATING FOOD LOG

Day of the Week______________________

FOOD

What Am I Eating Right Now?

FEELING

What Am I Feeling Right Now?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Guidelines:

a  Write down everything you eat (or are wanting to eat) no matter how small – including drinks

a  It is helpful to make note of the time of day you are eating to look for patterns of night-snacking, hunger versus boredom, etc.

a  Look at the Feeling Wheel on the previous page (Sorry I can't past the pic) and choose the feeling that best describes what you were feeling when you were eating or wanting to ear and mark it down next to the food item you just ate or were craving.

 

EMOTIONAL EATING FOOD QUESTIONAIRE

This exercise will help you understand your ideas about food and weight loss, if compulsive or emotional eating is a problem for you.

Answer each question as honestly as you can.  You can complete the worksheet in one sitting or take your time and answer one question a day.

 

To me, food represents ______________________________________________________________________.

All my life, I’ve used food as __________________________________________________________________.

What will help me lose weight is________________________________________________________________.

Looking at my body makes me feel______________________________________________________________.

I am angry at_______________________________________________________________________________.

The feelings I use food to bury are______________________________________________________________.

Food helps me avoid_________________________________________________________________________.

I love food because it_________________________________________________________________________.

Sometimes I am afraid to eat because____________________________________________________________.

Parts of my body that I love are_________________________________________________________________.

To lose weight, I am willing to___________________________________________________________________.

Strengths that will help me lose weight are_________________________________________________________.

What has helped me in the past is________________________________________________________________.

What will help me now is_______________________________________________________________________.

I can replace food with ________________________________________________________________________.


Anyway - it's helped a few us!  Great Post - as always!  You are so wonderful!!  And yes - you look DAMN GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!


HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 4/14/10 1:24 pm
Topic: RE: EGD (endoscopy) Anyone?
I had a sticture at about a month out.  They did an endoscopy - I was sedated and it took about 10 minutes.  It was pretty uneventful.

Good Luck Hon!  I hope everything goes as smoothly as mine did :)
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 4/14/10 1:22 pm
Topic: RE: Did you tell anyone?
I told everyone before my surgery (except my staff) and in a few cases I regretted it.  After my surgery, I didn't regret telling everyone - and I've had very few negative responses.

One thing I would say is that we all need as much support as we can get!  If you can help your friends and family understand why you've chosen a surgical solution, they may be more supportive than you think.  Lots of folks are under the impression that wls is just experimental, or taking the easy way out.  They don't understand that obesity is a disease and diets don't work for you.

Also, some people see your weight as a part of your identity and they love you now - so in a misguided attempt to support you, they try to discourage you from getting the help you need.  Change is scary for everyone - even though it's your health and it's your body. 

I think if you approach it as simply a health issue (for example, a woman with a bmi of 40 can expect to live over 20 years less than someone in a normal bmi range) then you give yourself the most power.  After all - it's hard to argue with medical facts.  Obesity kills.  Surgery is relatively safe.  Period.

I hope your friends and family surprise you and are supportive and kind!!

Hugs,
Mel
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 4/14/10 1:09 pm
Topic: RE: Darnn Gall Bladder
Hugs!!!!!  I hope you get it out soon and are feeling great for summer hon.
xo
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 4/14/10 1:08 pm
Topic: RE: time of the month and amount you can eat
I got my tom today and I've barely been able to eat anything all day.  Ugh.
But everyday is a little different for me - some days I can eat way more and some days it's a field mouse's fair.

Our little jellybeans are tres weird!
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 4/14/10 1:06 pm
Topic: RE: 6 months photo update!!!
You look completely different!  It's AMAZING!!
I can't believe the difference in only 6 months - you should be SO damn proud of yourself!!!!!!
Woot!  Woot!!!!!!!
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 4/14/10 1:04 pm
Topic: RE: Back from hospital!!!
Sounds just awful!  Sending you hugs!
((((hugs))))

xo
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 4/14/10 1:03 pm
Topic: RE: One year at Goal, I LOVE my new life!
I Love, Love, LOVE your posts Lori G!!!

What an inspiration you always are!  (And gorgeous I might add!!)

xo
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 4/2/10 2:03 am
Topic: RE: I told myself I wouldn't, but apparently I am
Hey Heather,
Average weight loss for the sleeve is 10-20lbs your first month and 5-10lbs a month after that.
So - basically - you are KICKIN' it!!!!!!  lol

Keep up the awesome work!  What ever you are doing - keep doing it :)
xo
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 4/2/10 1:51 am
Topic: RE: Any Low BMI'ers that have had VSG?
My bmi was 32 at the time of my surgery and it was 35 at my highest.  My sleeve was the best thing I have ever done!  I am now a size 2 and 125 lbs :)
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 4/2/10 1:46 am
Topic: RE: Need fingers crossed
Fingers crossed honey!! xoxo
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 4/1/10 2:11 am
Topic: RE: LOL at the guys at work!
LMAO!!  I love it!!!!!!  
What a bunch of sweeties you are working with!  And I bet you do look completely HOT too!!!!!!
xoxo
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 3/30/10 12:29 pm
Topic: RE: Shopping NSV....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You have now!!!!!!!!
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 3/30/10 12:28 pm
Topic: RE: Giving up the scale. Yep. I'm doing it.
I just wanted to say that during the losing phase (and only when you know you are losing well) that this would be ok.

The research is pretty clear though, that the patients who maintain their weight loss the best weigh themselves once a day.  This prevents you from regain where 5-10lbs just 'sneaks' back up on you.

Also, if you struggle to lose the weight, sometimes it can be due to hormonal issues or a miscalculation in caloric intake.  If you don't have a clear idea of where you are at in terms of weight loss, than it can be harder to figure out when you have a problem and how to best deal with it.

That said - I think its smart during the early weight loss days not to obsess about the amount of weight lost!

Hugs,
Mel
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 3/30/10 12:23 pm
Topic: RE: GOAL!
WOOT!  WOOOOOOT!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nice Work! You look like a completely different person - I'm not sure I would recognize you on the street!

Congratulations - you DESERVE this!!!!!!!


HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 3/30/10 12:21 pm
Topic: RE: Is this normal??
Average weight loss for the sleeve is 10-20lbs your first month and 5-10lbs a month after that.
As long you are above that, you are doing amazingly!

Remember - the weight never comes off in a staight decline.  It comes off in fits and starts.  Lots one week nothing for a couple - that sort of thing.  It's frustrating but completely normal.

You are doing great!  Keep up what you are doing and you will be at goal before you know it!

xo
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 3/30/10 12:19 pm
Topic: RE: Shopping NSV....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am SOOOooo excited for you!  WAY TO GO!!!!!!  You Skinny Minny You!!!!!!
xoxo
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 3/30/10 12:13 pm
Topic: RE: What is a stricture?
I developed a stricture at about a month out.  Scar tissue built up between my esophagus and my stomach and it made it so fluid and food could not pass. 

It felt like a heavy lump in my chest, and eventually I would have to throw up.  When I did, the food was clearly undigested.  Eventually I became dehydrated.

They repair it by doing an endoscopy and dilating the stricture with a baloon.  It's pretty simple, and I felt better right away.

In about 20% of cases the stricture needs more than one dilation.
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 3/30/10 12:52 am
Topic: RE: Please Pray For Me
((((HUGS))))
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
PeanutFreeMom
on 3/29/10 1:47 pm
Topic: RE: St John's Wort ok after surgery?
You should be fine!  It's not good to take right before your surgery, but it's fine now :)
HW: 225  |  SW: 198  |  CW: 123 | Height: 5' 7.5"  I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!
    
13 lbs below goal :)
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