Tiffy C.

Obesity & Me

Describe your behavioral and emotional battle with weight control before learning about bariatric surgery.

I ate because it was meal time. I ate because it was there. I ate because I was bored. I never ate because I was hungry. I was never hungry because I never allowed myself to be. If I was sick or depressed I would not eat. But as soon as I took that first bite all bets of dieting were off. One bite was never enough. I had to have the whole thing.

What was (is) the worst thing about being overweight?

The worst thing about being overweight was that people seemed to over look you. Rather than treating you like a person they would ignore you and hope you went away. No matter how smart or how talented you are you were never good enough in others eyes.

If you have had weight loss surgery already, what things do you most enjoy doing now that you weren't able to do before?

Live life!!

How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

I first found out about bariatric surgery from my Primary Care Doctor. She did not know a lot about the surgery but encouraged me to research the possibility. I was to the point to where I needed to do something drastic because my health was failing. The doctor told me I could, "Die slowly in the body I am in or die on the table trying to do something about it."

What was your stay in the hospital like? How long where you there? What things are most important to bring?

I was in the hospital for three days after bariatric surgery. I found that the most important thing to have for my stay was a fan. I packed lots of other things like a lap top computer, a cd player and a night gown but never used any of it. A fan and house shoes are all you need. The hospital will take care of the rest.

Did you have any complications from the surgery? If so, how did you deal with them?

I had no major complications. My central line in the neck did not work. They bloodied me up but did not keep it in and I did not need it.

In the weeks after you got your surgery date, how did you feel? How did you cope with any anxiety you might have felt?

When you first get your surgery date you think it will never get here but it gets here faster than you think. Time really does fly. You feel nervous, excited, sad. Every emotion runs through you, including doubt. Are you doing the right thing? Yes you are!

What aftercare support group/program do you have? How helpful/important is this?

I have began a support group in my home town. I have a growing group and advertise meetings on the radio and in all the local newspapers. I also attend another group for pointers and to keep myself on track.

What is your scar like? Is this what you expected?

My scar is beginning to heal. It is long but it's beginning to lighten up and in time will not be too bad.
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