How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

I first thought this procedure was for wimps with no control. Then, fear was a big facor.

Describe your experience with getting insurance approval for surgery. What advice, if any, do you have for other people in this stage?

My insurance flat out denied the approval. So, I sacrificed and financed part of the procedure and paid out of pocket for part of it. It was worth every penny. I feel so much better. I am mobile again.

What was your first visit with your surgeon like? How can people get the most out of this meeting?

My first meeting was actually an informative class/group meeting. It was educational. He provided us with the tools neccessary to make the choice for the procedure we needed/ wanted to have.

What made you finally decide to have the surgery?

To live a more vital life.

How did you decide which proceedure to have?

I decided to have the gastric sleeve because it was less restrictive and less malabsorption of nutrients.

What fears did you have about having complications or even dying from from the surgery, and what would you tell other people having the same fears now?

I virtually had no fears of having the surgery. I knew if I did not take any precautions where my weight was concerned I knew I would die of other weight related illnesses.

What was your stay in the hospital like? How long where you there? What things are most important to bring?

I was in the hospital for four days. Initially, I was supposed to be in overnight but I had an upper resipiratory infection and fever which extended my stay. The most important thing to bring is your bariatric folder from you meetings if you have one and a journal to track your journey.

Did you have any complications from the surgery? If so, how did you deal with them?

Yes, but my surgeon was wonderful. No regrets.

In the weeks after you got your surgery date, how did you feel? How did you cope with any anxiety you might have felt?

I followed the advice of my surgeon and nutritionist to the letter. I was very careful to stay on full liquids and allowed my body/stomach time to heal. I rested a lot and walked as instructed. Walking eases the gas and increases your energy. I lost 20 pounds, immediately.

Describe your first few weeks home from the hospital. What should people expect from this period?

I was off of work for one week. Then, I went back to the office. Get plenty of rest ... listen to your body. No heavy lifting. But be sure to walk daily.

How far did you travel to have your surgery? (If far, how did this affect your aftercare?)

approx 35 miles

Please describe in detail what things you could and couldn't eat in the weeks and months following surgery. What foods have been off limits? Please explain how your dietary tolerance changed week-by-week, and then month-by-month since surgery.

I am still learning. So,far my body does not tolerate beef well. It has only been six weeks since my surgery.

What was your actvity level in the days and weeks after surgery?

None, I had a very difficult time walking prior to my surgery.

What vitamins and/or dietary supplements have you taken since your surgery?

chewable multi vitamin, b12 and caltrate.

What aftercare support group/program do you have? How helpful/important is this?

There is a support group available. I have only attended one of the meetings but I plan to attend more.

What is your scar like? Is this what you expected?

I have several small laser incisions that are barely noticeble.

Please describe any plateau experiences you have had since surgery.

None, yet. I am still in the "honeymoon" phase.

Do you notice people treating you any differently now?

Yes, but my true friends are still around.