Dorothy B. L.

Obesity & Me

Describe your behavioral and emotional battle with weight control before learning about bariatric surgery.

It all started on 09/03/46 when my mother was told "Congratulations, you have a beautiful healthy bounching baby girl, birth weight nine pounds, eleven and one-half ounces"! ! ! Little did I know at that time that this would be the basis of my entire life, larger then average. I remember while growing up, that I was always the largest girl in my class, and taller too. I learned at a very young age how to "defend myself" by not letting others hurt me in what would be said to me. This defense mechanism remained with me throughout grade school, junior high school, high school and throughout my adult life. In life one often makes "bad choices" as they feel they must "settle for less", this could be in relationships and/or the work force. As an obese person you are discriminated against in job opportunities, relationships and even treated as a second class citizen by your family. Your family members are oftened ashamed or embarrassed at your presence. Often times obesity is "inherited", not in my case. My parents were of average size as were my two brothers and one sister. They never had a weight problem. I was the only one in my family that was obese. At the age of 15 years, my sister who is eight years older then me, trying to help, and only with the best intentions, on a Saturday morning made a trip with me to down town Boston, MA to a Rexall Drug Store, after reading an add in the newspaper about a diet aid that would help one lose weight. Since this medication could be purchased over-the-counter in a public drug store, what could possibly be the harm? The name of the pills were called "Regimen Tablets", they were guaranteed to make you lose weight, they were on sale. We bought it. This was my first experience with "Diet Pills". I took this medication for three weeks and could not believe the outcome! Wow! I had lost 30 pounds in three weeks! Soon after that I started to pass blood from my rectum and vomited blood. I was hospitalized. My doctor was horrified at the findings. He immediately contacted the pharmacy where these pills were purchased and was told that the company that manufactured the medication went out of business. I remained in the hospital for one week. The pills contained "eggs" from parasites, much like a tape worm. It was determined that the blood I was seeing was from worms eating into my intestines. Pretty Gross!. Any way I survived. I then decided to try other modes of weight loss. There was Metrical, Seago (liquid diet drinks), Aydes candies in three delicious flavors, caramel, chocolate and mint chocolate. You would eat two of these candies with a hot beverage, tea or broth and this was to help curb your appetite. This would work for about ten pounds or so, hense the beginning of yo-yo dieting. After high school graduation at 165 pounds, I then graduated to various reducing diets such as Weight Watchers, Dolly Parton, The Seven Day Diet, where you would eat only one type of food per day, all day long such as oranges on Monday, green beans on Tuesday, brown rice on Wednesday, etc. This was not too bad though, over a five year period I lost 90 pounds the first year and gained the weight back; 85 pounds the third year, and oh well we are back to the yo-yo dieting again. Also tried various gym memberships, Trim Studio, Eileen Feather Reducing Salon, and various others. When I lived in California I joined Jenny Craig several times and lost 40 pounds and gained the weight back. In 1992 while living in California, working at a hospital, I had heart palpitations one night. I did not think much of it at the time. This happended several more times throughout the night. The next morning while at work it happened again. My supervisor insisted that I be seen in the emergency room. I said I would rather not, but instead saw my OB/GYN physician in the next building. He examined me, listened to my heart. He then started to palpate my throat and asked me who my endocrinologist was. I told him that I did not have one, he immediately referred me to one. I did not know that heart palpitations could be caused by hypothyroidism. As it turned out it was determined that since my late teens through adulthood I had a thyroid gland that was not functioning. I was then placed on thyroid medication for which I will have to take for the rest of my life. My thyroid is now diseased and may possibly have to be surgically removed. Three months after being placed on thyroid medication it was suggested I try a new diet drug called "Phen-Fen" This terrified me. I had an immediate flash back of 40 years prior with my first experience with diet pills. I related this information to my endocrinologist, and he informed me there was nothing to worry about, after all this was approved by the FDA. I took this drug on and off for four years. As it turned out the endocrinologist was wrong. I had an echocardiogram on 09/01/02 that shows I now have two damaged heart valves. There was one more final trial of diet pills in March of 2003, Meridia. I will not do diet pills again. It is time to try something else, more definitive and hopefully will work. I have researched bariatric surgery for the past six years and it is all that I can think about. This is my last hope for hopefully experiencing some normalcy in what it would be like to live without high blood pressure, GERD, sleep apnea, heel spur pain, ankle, knee and hip pain, enjoy life more. Bariatric surgery will be the next step.

What was (is) the worst thing about being overweight?

Aside from being looked down upon, discrimated against and not being able to enjoy life, I cannot think of very many worse things that could happen. The biggest fear is the deterioration of my health and not being able to be independent of my normal activities of daily living.

If you have had weight loss surgery already, what things do you most enjoy doing now that you weren't able to do before?

Freedom of movement without pain. Being able to walk more then one block without becoming short of breath. Shopping for smaller size clothing.

How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

I first became interested when I stopped taking Phen-Fen, and realized how dangerous that was. Taking diet pills will chemically control your appetite. I thought perhaps a more natural approach, surgery to permanently alter the digestive tract in limiting the amount of food intake and allowing more mobility with activity seemed to make more sense. I was impressed at how this procedure helped people who were in poor health or had multiple co-morbidities, improve their quality of life. I hope to achieve the same.

Describe your experience with getting insurance approval for surgery. What advice, if any, do you have for other people in this stage?

From the time I attended the WLS seminar on 02/22/03 until I received the letter of Authorization on 04/12/03, took about five weeks. I submitted my information packet on 03/05/03. One has to be patient. My primary insurance excludes any type of bariatric surgery. However, if you have co-morbidities, and you need to work with your primary care physician, where this is documented, often times the insurance will recognize bariatric surgery as "Medically Necessary". I also have secondary insurance where I am covered under my husband's insurance. This is helpful. My primary insurance carrier is Sierra Healthcare Options, Inc., POS. Secondary insurance carrier is Great West One Health Plan PPO

What was your first visit with your surgeon like? How can people get the most out of this meeting?

I was fortunate to meet with the surgeon the day prior to surgery at )4:30 p.m., for ten minutes. I felt this was rather rushed. However, I did get to see the surgeon again just before I went to the operating room on the day of surgery and once more on the third postoperative day. Since I live in another State, I have not seen the surgeon again or have had follow-up contact with the office. I have, however, had regular appointments with my PCP in Nevada, where I live. My physician has prescribed regular laboratory follow-up blood work, etc. This is ongoing.

What made you finally decide to have the surgery?

Having tried and exhausted all other measures of weight loss attempts and failed, i.e., diet pills, various diets, health club memberships, etc., bariatric surgery seems to be definitive in combating the problem of obesity, or at least enables one to attempt to combat obesity.

How did you decide which proceedure to have?

I thought of the Fobi Pouch procedure. With this procedure you do not use any of the original stomach, it appears the Fobi pouch is created from the duodenum. With the RNY procedure, in observing various drawings and diagrams it seems that a portion of the original stomach, the fundus is used as the new "pouch" that will become the new stomach with the jejunum re-routed. Part of the natural stomach will be used. On research it is the most "compatible" type of bariatric surgery.

What fears did you have about having complications or even dying from from the surgery, and what would you tell other people having the same fears now?

I have taken into consideration my age of 56 years, my overall general health, co-morbidities and the risk I take at remaining at my current weight of 272 pounds. I am aware of the possible complications with bariatric surgery, as there are risks with any surgery, such as blood clots, pulmonary embolism which concerns me, cardiac arrest, stroke, etc., during or soon after the surgery. If my weight problem does not improve, I am certain to suffer a worse fate. In undergoing the surgery I am hoping for a better chance to enjoy life.

How did your family and friends react to your decision? Would you have communicated anything differently if you could now? How supportive were they after your surgery?

I have not informed my family of the surgery. I know that they would be against it and find it to be an unatural way to deal with obesity. I have told a few friends and coworkers who have mixed feelings about the surgery. They are concerned about the risks. Some are excited about it.

How did your employer/supervisor react to your decision? What did you tell him/her? How long were you out of work?

I have informed my manager of the surgery. She does not understand the entire procedure, but seems supportive in my decision. From what I understand I will be out of work for four weeks. I work for a hospital.

What was your stay in the hospital like? How long where you there? What things are most important to bring?

Hospital stay was what I expected. I work in a hospital and very familiar with procedures, patient care, etc. I was hospitalized for five days. Items to bring to the hospital that were helpful were; Chap Stick, shampoo, conditioner, deodarant, toothbrush and toothpaste, change of clothing. While hospitalized the hospital will provide you with what you need, basically a surgical gown and Ace Wrap for your legs.

Did you have any complications from the surgery? If so, how did you deal with them?

I was dehydrated, therefore I was required to be on intravenous fluids for three days as well as a Foley catheter. I have a sensitivity to Morphine, so that drug was changed to Dilaudid.

In the weeks after you got your surgery date, how did you feel? How did you cope with any anxiety you might have felt?

I am currently six days postop. Still having a lot of pain.

Describe your first few weeks home from the hospital. What should people expect from this period?

"Slow and Steady Wins the Race". One must be patient for the following three months after surgery. This is about the amount of time it will take before you feel like yourself again. It takes quite a while to regain your strength after major surgery. At three and one-half months postop, I am now walking two miles per day. I have improved ambulation and do not tire as easily. I can do so much more.

How far did you travel to have your surgery? (If far, how did this affect your aftercare?)

I live in Las Vegas, Nevada. The hospital was in Fountain Valley, California. The trip took about five and one-half hours and was 375 miles. This may not sound like much, but in July driving through the Mojave Desert in 115 degree heat makes a big difference. It was important to stop every 45 minutes to get out of the car and walk, even in the heat. You learn to carry a bottle of water with you at all times.

Please describe in detail what things you could and couldn't eat in the weeks and months following surgery. What foods have been off limits? Please explain how your dietary tolerance changed week-by-week, and then month-by-month since surgery.

The first three weeks was not difficult. All clear liquids were tolerated. What helped was ice chips, sugar free Popcicles. Week four through six, took a little getting used to. I do not care for skim milk. I can consume this in beverages such as Carnation Instant Breakfast, no sugar added, or in sugar free vanilla pudding or cottage chese, but I cannot swallow it after coming from the container to glass or cup. Week seven through nine, very experimental, a lot of trial and error. Getting used to the texture of food was challenging. I am now in the fourth phase which will last for six months. It is a 1200 calorie, low fat diet. I can tolerate most foods. I still have a problem with certian meats such as beef (unless itis ground beef), lamb, etc. I can eat deli sliced chicken and tuna fish, schrimp. What I find helpful for occasional nausea it herbal peppermint tea.

What was your actvity level in the days and weeks after surgery?

Grandual increased walking from walking two blocks on day 12 postop, to two miles per day currently.

What vitamins and/or dietary supplements have you taken since your surgery?

Vitamin B12, 1000 mg, sublingual on Sunday morning. Calcium magnesium and zinc tablet one daily, Levoxyl 50 ug, one per day, two TUMS ultra daily, two Centrum Junior vitamins plus iron per day.

What side effects (nausea, vomiting, sleep disturbace, dumping, hair loss etc.) were worse for you? For how long after surgery did they persist? How did you cope with them?

nausea and insomnia. I still get waves of nausea occasionally. The insomnia I had prior to the surgery and sleep about four to five hours per night. I have been prescribed Ambien 10 mg, at bed time. This helps. When I take this medication I can get up to six hours sleep during the night.

What was the worst part about the entire bariatric surgery process?

Fatigue. Regaining strength and mobility, ambulation.

What aftercare support group/program do you have? How helpful/important is this?

I communicate with the obesityhelp.com web site. I have not attended a support group yet, but plan to do so soon.

What is your scar like? Is this what you expected?

I was fortunate to have my procedure done laparoscopically. I have six one-half to one-inch "stab" wounds on the upper part of the abdomen or epigastric area. They are now "pink" in color. They do not give me a problem. People are impressed when I show them my incision scars.

Please describe any plateau experiences you have had since surgery.

My surgery was on 07/23/03: As of 10/15/03, I have lost a total of 65 pounds, and have stayed at this weight for three weeks. I have increased my exercise and hopefully will start to drop more weight soon. I understand that one will hit plateaus before their total weight loss is completed.

Do you notice people treating you any differently now?

Yes. There are positive and negative responses. Most are very happy and excited to see my progress. However, there are several people who appear to be stand-offish, or (I think this is a littel strong) jealous, for which I am surprised.
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