How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

My oncologist mentioned it. My initial impression was that I wanted to know more about this and see if I could possibly have it. I was concerned if anyone would operate on me because of my weight and lupus, etc...and if I could live through the operation.

What was your stay in the hospital like? How long where you there? What things are most important to bring?

It was OK> I was there a week to ensure I was healing well and everything was going well.Originally the Dr. thought I might have to go to an intermediate care facility because of my lupus and my limited mobility, but I did fine and did not have to. The hospital catered fairly well to WLS patients. They need more variety in what comes on your tray. It even seemed the jello was always the same color and tea and water were the only drinks. About 5 days into the stay I found they had crystal lite lemonade.Boy did that taste good!! I think something to do as you are recovering was the best thing, be it a book or some craft stuff. Also you might bring some flavored waters because the hospital water and tea grows old fast. Of course not everyone will stay as long as I did.

Did you have any complications from the surgery? If so, how did you deal with them?

No. I was blessed.

In the weeks after you got your surgery date, how did you feel? How did you cope with any anxiety you might have felt?

I never felt much anxiety. After the surgery, it just seemed that I had done what I needed to do. And it became obvious why I had to wait a year and a half -- so I could really be ready -- physically, emotionally and ready to change my eating habits.

What aftercare support group/program do you have? How helpful/important is this?

I go to PFMOS in Pflugerville and Round Rock (outside Austin, Texas). I started with the group about 5 months before surgery and it was the best move I ever made. They are a GREAT group and have supported me and put up with my questions and concerns. There are people at all stages of the surgery there and that really helps everyone. Everyone is so friendly and even though some of them look like models now, they don't forget where they came from and are always willing to help and answer questions.

What is your scar like? Is this what you expected?

Just bruise looking scars around the Lap area.

Please describe any plateau experiences you have had since surgery.

Here I go... I had my first plateau at the end of month two. Basically I could start eating whatever I could keep down concentrating on protein. Well, I was eating some and wasn't really interested in food. I stopped losing and even gained a couple of pounds. The Dr. and my group told me to EAT!! Well, you know if you are obese in order to lose weight you STARVE yourself!! Not eat!! I learned my lesson and have upped my eating and my protein and am now losing again. That is a hard lesson to learn for people who need and have had WLS.

Do you notice people treating you any differently now?

No, I have a great family and friends. People are starting to tell me how good I look!! Altho I have to admit I don't really see that much change myself. There is still a fat girl looking back at me in the mirror!!