How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

Two of my friends had the surgery. One had the open banded surgery and the other the lap RNY. At first it didn't seem like an option for me. I didn't really think I was even eligible for it.

What was your stay in the hospital like? How long where you there? What things are most important to bring?

I went to the surgery early the 1st day and there was a delay. I got back to me room around 11 am. I had to do a swallow test the next day, and then the following day I went home. I probably brought much more than I needed. The only thing I really needed to bring was a housecoat and toothbrush...also clothes to go home in that were comfortable.

Did you have any complications from the surgery? If so, how did you deal with them?

I had absolutely no complications from the surgery.

In the weeks after you got your surgery date, how did you feel? How did you cope with any anxiety you might have felt?

In the weeks after I got my surgery date, I felt pretty good. The day I had to sign the final papers for it...I almost backed out. My surgeon put my fears to rest. He said the surgery was easy...the hard part would come after. He was right.

Describe your first few weeks home from the hospital. What should people expect from this period?

It was hard to get my protein in the first few weeks. I don't particulary like water and the flavored waters tasted like metal to me. I really wasn't hungry.

How far did you travel to have your surgery? (If far, how did this affect your aftercare?)

My surgery was probably 45 minutes away. It would be easier if he were closer, but I make due and manage all my visits well. It was worth it.

Please describe in detail what things you could and couldn't eat in the weeks and months following surgery. What foods have been off limits? Please explain how your dietary tolerance changed week-by-week, and then month-by-month since surgery.

I've gotten really tired of the protein shakes, jello, and chicken broth. I've not had any dumping problems. I have had problems if I didn't chew properly...I feel horrible, get the foamies, then it comes back up. I feel better after it comes up. Beef is the most problematic.

What aftercare support group/program do you have? How helpful/important is this?

I haven't gone to any aftercare support groups or programs. My two friends who have had the surgery have been my support group.

What is your scar like? Is this what you expected?

I have 6 little scars. Two are almost gone and the others are about a half an inch long. Only one of these is prominent, but not too bad. I had expected worse.

Please describe any plateau experiences you have had since surgery.

Right now I've been on my first plateau. I'm not cheating and I am exercising. It's been going on for about 3 weeks and it's very frustrating. My friend said she doesn't exercise and it hasn't happened to her. She said (jokingly) "Maybe you shouldn't exercise."

Do you notice people treating you any differently now?

My husband seems to notice me more. Other than that...people treat me the same.