beanblossom 19 years, 1 month ago

Do not stand at my grave and weep, "I am not there, I do not sleep." I am thousand winds that blow; "I am the diamond glints on the snow, "I am the sunlight on ripened grains; "I am the gentle autumn's rain. "When you awake in the morning's hush, "I am the swift uplifting rush "Of the quiet birds in circled flight. "I am the soft star that shines at night." Do not stand at my grave and cry. "I am not there; I did not die AuthorUnknown-kristi

Lori B. 21 years, 11 months ago

I'm so sorry to hear about the death of your husband. I just lost my very best friend Suzi she was 2 years out of the surgery and was 7 months pregnant, her intestines burst and she and her baby girl died. I lost my friend Gwen the other day from this surgery, she had it done in the summer and had been suffering ever since and had to be put into a nursing home. I know 3 others that died from it. Plus the man that had it done the week before my surgery (yes, I was that desperate to lose weight ) died the night before my surgery. I know of another girl only in her 20's who is about to face her 6th surgery after the botched up job...they are removing her stomach! I'd rather live life as a fat person and lose it naturally than let them destroy my insides. I'm well over 400 pounds, but it still doesn't matter. I got my wake up call.....I wish others would get theres before it is too late.

Ann M. 23 years, 10 months ago

Only time can heal your pain. Nothing will bring your loving husband and father home but in time God will give you peace. And at that time the peace will give you memories. And those memories will give you life again. I will keep you in my prayers. Love always-Ann

Marilyn C. 23 years, 10 months ago

May God give you strength and comfort you and your daughter during this difficult time. There is really nothing anyone can say to make your heartache go away, but please know that we are praying for you and thinking of you. Kenneth was one of "us"... A person who just wanted to enjoy life more and to have better health. God has given him a new wonderful body and someday we will understand all the questions in our hearts. Until then, please be comforted by knowing that you are not alone in your sorrow. You have many who care here at this site.

JoAnn A. 23 years, 10 months ago

I am truly saddened by your loss of Kenneth. I can not imagine what it must be like to lose a spouse but I suppose it might weel be one of the very worse things you can go through. God be with you and your precious daughter and may He bless you every step of your future. JoAnn

Connie G. 23 years, 10 months ago

May God bless and keep you always, until you are with Kenneth again.

Donda B. 23 years, 10 months ago

May God grant you peace at this very difficult time. It is so hard when such a tragedy hits because we want to know "why". Unfortunately, many of those answers will not be ours in this life. Last year, I attended a Women of Faith conference and Sheila Walsh mentioned something that has stuck with me as I've faced tragedies of my own. She said that whether you pray and get the answer you want, OR the one that you dread the most...God's GRACE is still sufficient. Our circumstances may change but our God doesn't. I will not presume to understand the depth of your loss or the pain you are experiences, but I will pray that God wrap his loving arms around you and give you His grace to walk through the days ahead. He's the only one who can. You are in my prayers, Donda

socco58 23 years, 10 months ago

My Deepest Sympathy To The Wentz Family ~~~Thinking of you & praying that God will send you peace in this difficult time. So sorry for your loss.

Michelle T. 23 years, 10 months ago

I am so very sorry about your loss. I did not know your husband but as an overweight person I know why he had surgery. I realize that it doesn't make it any eaiser but he is with GOD now and will never have to worry about his weight again. God Bless you and your child.
About Me
Charleston, WV
Location
67.8
BMI
RNY
Surgery
10/20/2000
Surgery Date
Jan 22, 2001
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