Al H.

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Joanne F. 18 years ago

Just heard of your loss. My sincere condolensces to you and your family. Perhaps you can find comfort in knowing that he did not die a painful death. God bless.

beanblossom 19 years, 1 month ago

Do not stand at my grave and weep, "I am not there, I do not sleep." I am thousand winds that blow; "I am the diamond glints on the snow, "I am the sunlight on ripened grains; "I am the gentle autumn's rain. "When you awake in the morning's hush, "I am the swift uplifting rush "Of the quiet birds in circled flight. "I am the soft star that shines at night." Do not stand at my grave and cry. "I am not there; I did not die AuthorUnknown-kristi

Ramsey D. 20 years, 10 months ago

As a bariatric surgeon, I have terrible sadness after reading of your husband's death. I wish you and your family strength in these trying times.

John N. 20 years, 11 months ago

I just wanted to say how sorry I am that Al had to go to heaven to get healed. My husband died 10/03 at the age of 45 post surgery. I know what it feels like to feel so relieved they make it through surgery and then for the worst to happen. My thoughts are with you. - wife of deceased member

Apple Pie 21 years ago

May wings of the angels of God wrap around you always, I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you very much for sharing Al's story. As hard it is to do, it is very informative to those seeking the surgery to know both the good and the bad. God bless you always.

Sheryl Johnson 21 years, 9 months ago

First off please accept my sincere condolances on your loss. I am waiting for a surgery date and have read and looked at all the wonderful success stories I knew that there had to be stories with not so much success. I just want to tell you...it's horrible being in this body. I have 5 children and a new husband and have often thought about the what if of this surgery killing me. But truthfully I would rather that happen than to live the way I do. I can't keep up with my children anymore and my new husband and I have no life beyond home. Do I want to die? No...I want to live...but what I'm doing right now...it's not living. I'm sure that's why you and your husband talked about the future and how wonderful it was going to be after he was well from his surgery. I know it has to be difficult for you and your children, but know this, there's no pain anymore where he's at. I'm sure he's running, skiing, jumping, etc. All the things I'm sure he wished he could do when he was here.

LISA H. 22 years, 4 months ago

HELLO..I WAS TOLD TO READ THE GOOD AND THE BAD RESPONSES FOR THE SURGERY. RIGHT NOW I AM STILL WANTING THE SURGERY. I GUESS WHEN YOU ARE DESPERATE, YOU MAY DO DESPERATE THINGS. I AM SO VERY SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR BELOVED HUSBAND AND FATHER TO YOUR CHILDREN. MAY GOD WRAP YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN HIS ARMS FOREVER.

Annie C. 22 years, 5 months ago

I am so sorry for your loss. I know none of us would have the surgery if we knew it would turn out this way. What was the cause of your husband's death? I do not mean to be crude but I would very much like to know

Lisa-Marie W. 22 years, 5 months ago

I JUST WANTED TO WRITE AND LET YOU KNOW I READ THIS PROFILE A FEW WEEKS AGO AND I THINK OF YOU ALL THE TIME,I HOPE ALL GOES WELL WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.I AM SENDING MY CONDOLENCES.LMWINOK