Question:
Post Ops: At what weight do you *dream* you will be someday?

How long do you think it will take and what are your plans once you have reached your *dream weight*? I guess by now, you can tell what my *dream* weight is: I'm 5'2" and started out at 265# (before my surgical consultation) and I dream of weighing approximately 115lbs. This, to me, is the weight I was most comfortable with~~during my real "youth".I was modeling then...I think at that size, I'll feel comfortable sporting a purple leather pant suit with purple leather boots to match, a gold hip chain around my little "teenie weenie waist", go to the beauty shop and get my hair curled big time, body massage, pedicure. I'll be all that!!! LAP RNY 9/3/02 265/158/115-126, Always, Hadiyah    — yourdivaness (posted on June 10, 2003)


June 10, 2003
Hi, Hadiyah--great question! Let's see, I would be content to be below 200#. I would be REALLY content to be 180#. I would be thrilled, ecstatic, beside myself to be at my personal all-time low of 165. 165, 165, 165--that's the big kahuna to me; the place where I'm most comfy and I look great! (Funny--when I DID weigh 165, I thought I was soooo fat.) My deep personal wish...but I'm not bankin' on it....it to be below 150. To slide that big 50# weight to "100" on the big doctor's scale and to slide the little weight up to "49"......oh, sweet Jesus......dare to dream.....4.5 months post-op, -71 lbs (325/254/165)
   — Joyce C.

June 10, 2003
The charts say my ideal weight is 126, but at 54 yrs old I think I would look like a hag at that. Too much excess skin and my face would look gaunt. My personal goal is 165 because that is the lowest I can remember being in the last 20 years. Anything less than that is just a bonus. I am currently 177 at 5'2". I was 272 when I had WLS on 10/22/02.I had to lose 10% for surgery so I actually started at 299, that was July 2002.
   — Tawnda C.

June 10, 2003
I'd really like to be 118 (strange number but that's the one stuck in my head). I'm 5'2.5". I started at 282 and am 135ish. I'm almost 2 yrs post and my window has slammed shut. I have decided to dedicate myself to diet/exercise so hopefully at some point in the NEXT two years I'll get there. I've been approved for a panni, so maybe that will get rid of another 5-6 lbs...Best wishes to all! -Kim open RNY 7/17/01
   — KimBo36

June 10, 2003
My personal goal has always been 140-150, but I would be happy at 170-180. I figure I can get another 10-20 lbs. off with plastics. To be honest, if I never lose another lb., I am so thankful for what this surgery has done for me and I would do it again in a heartbeat. My start weight was 348.5 and I am now 218, 8 months post-op. I am off ALL meds and feel better than I've felt in years!!!!
   — Want2bslim

June 10, 2003
I ould love to get to 143.5 that would be half of my beginning weight. I am 5'7 and would be happy in the 150's. I will not settle for less no matter how long it takes to get there.
   — Marcy S.

June 10, 2003
My dream weight would be 160, I'm 5'10 so I figure by then I'll be a large size 10. I'm about 15 pounds away from that, and it seems to be the hardest 15 pounds I'll ever have to deal with, seems I keep loosing and gaining back 5 pounds.... Awe man when I reach goal, I want a Tummy Tuck, and a belly peirce...... that's be my little way of rewarding myself truly... for all the hard work. Post op down 12 months down 130 pounds
   — tannedtigress

June 10, 2003
I am a little over eight weeks psot op and have lost 101 pounds. I started at 523 My dream weight is to get down to 215. Unfortunately my bone structure accordin to my MD is three times the size of a normal human man so he said that may not happen for a while.
   — Justin F.

June 10, 2003
I would love to get down to 112. I am only 4'11" tall. I dont know if I can get down that low. I would be happy with 120.
   — S A.

June 10, 2003
Since I started out at 441lbs anything under 200lbs sounds good to me. I never thought I would get this far (220lbs on the scale today). I would ultimately like to be around 180lbs at 5'6. That may sound like alot to some but at 48 yrs old I don't think I would ever get down to what the charts say I should be (142lbs). I haven't been in the hundreds since grade school. Take Care, Toni OPEN RNY 01/10/02 441/220/1??
   — toni D.

June 10, 2003
I started out at 282 and I truly want to be "half the person I used to be", so my goal weight is 141. At 5'3", I thik that is pretty good. I'm 9 months post op and down to 145 (only 4 lbs to go)!!!!! I think I will probably get a little lower than that, but I will be bouncing off the walls at 141!!!!!! Anything else is just "icing on the cake" so to speak.
   — redheadtedd

June 10, 2003
All I have EVER wanted my whole life was to not be considered fat - so it doesn't matter what the number is!
   — Susan B.

June 10, 2003
My 'dream' was to be 150lbs so I could honestly say I lost half of me. I started at 300lbs. I'm now at 160lbs after my PS and I DON'T want to be 150lbs now. I'd look sickly. I'm in size 8's and some 6's (I'm 5'6" medium frame) and I remember thinking that I'd be thrilled with a 12! Never would've thought I'd get to an 8! Don't go by the numbers. Go by how you look and feel.
   — Kris T.

June 10, 2003
My dream goal weight, which happens to be the goal weight of my surgeon, is 170 lbs. I am 5'5, I never wanted to be super thin, but still have meat on my bones, I think that is attactive to men these days. I am 9.5 months post op and down 162 lbs. Starting weight of 382 and currently 220. 50 more lbs to go!
   — Shavonne P.

June 11, 2003
My "dream" weight is 180 (I'm six feet tall), however I think I'd be quite happy at 220...oh heck I'm quite happy at 260 lol...but 220 would be ever so comfy :>)
   — [Deactivated Member]

June 11, 2003
That is a really good question! I really don't have a specific number on the scale that I am looking for. I want to be able to look in the mirror like the size of the person looking back....I want to be able to ride in an airplane and not get marks on my hips...I have really never been small (I was 200 lbs in 8th grade) so right now my goal is to be healthier and look better....
   — kle0007

June 12, 2003
my dream weight is 140, however with my bone structure and height (i'm 5'4", and very big boned) i don't think i would look good lower than 160. my surgon's (and my) goal weight is 170. I'm 7 weeks out and down 35 lbs last weigh in. not a bad start....
   — mellyhudel

June 18, 2003
Original Poster Here: I just want to say “Thank You” to ALL of you, for taking the time to respond to my question(s). Oftentimes, I’m so busy reading and responding to others, that I’m unable to get back to my own posts. I try to make time for others just as others have taken time for me both pre and post-operatively. You clicked on and shared your knowledge, when you could have simply moved on to the next question(s) from others. I appreciate you! Luv, Prayers and {{{HUGS}}} Hadiyah McCutcheon, a.k.a.~~~
   — yourdivaness




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