Question:
does anyone have a meal card that they show when they go out to eat

Does anyone have a card that you show to restaurants to pay only for a child size meal?? How can I get one??    — Bev L. (posted on December 15, 2001)


December 15, 2001
Hi! First I would check with your surgeon. Mine gives them to anyone who asks. Also, check Links on this site. I believe there is a place there to get them.
   — grammie5

December 15, 2001
I have one but have never used it, I share meals with my wife. So far restaurants have been very nice allowing sharing and such. Havent ate at a buffet though. Of course I tell everyone I contact about my surgery in the hope the info filters to a MO.
   — bob-haller

December 15, 2001
I got mine from my surgeon, however I have never used it. There is one on this site at this link http://www.obesityhelp.com/morbidobesity/restaurantcard.html Hope this helps. Shelley
   — Shelley.

December 16, 2001
My surgeon refused to sign one when I asked him once. Can a regular doctor do it for us? I always have to show my scar to prove I've had surgery. ;)
   — Danmark

December 16, 2001
I tried to print out the ones available on this site and found them not to print properly--cut off words and the like. What I ended up doing was I have a program on my computer that makes business cards, so I made up my own, based on the ones on this site...but I was able to put my own name and my Dr's name on it--it looks very professional. And I got a laminating kit from Wal-Mart and laminated 10 of them. If I ever lose one, I won't worry, because I will have plenty more. I saved it on my computer, so I can always print out more as I need them. Good luck to all. Chris
   — Mustang

December 16, 2001
I have one, but have never actually used it. I have been able to get child meals simply by explaining my situation. I have done this at Sizzler (a steakhouse), buffets in Las Vegas and a few other places. Sometimes, I just boldly order the child's meal without saying anything, especially at an "order at the counter" type of place. No one has every challenged me. Most often though, I split an entree with whomever I'm dining with.
   — Gina E.

December 16, 2001
Hi.. 6 days POST-OP (down 14 lbs and 12.75 inches..WHOOPEE) My surgeon gave me a laminated card with the restaurant card on one side, and the MedicAlert card (Gastric Bypass - Do Not Intubate Without Scope) on the other side.. before I came home from the hospital. I thought that was REALLY a nice gesture - I didn't even ask for it..!! I have a group of about a dozen friends that for years have been meeting a couple times a month and heading off for some buffet. It will be nice that I'll be able to only pay child's price, since I'm only eating what a child would eat.
   — Diane E.

December 16, 2001
My friends took me to Ponderosa, a buffet place for one of my last suppers. Now they mentioned going there again. So what I am doing is stopping by the restaurant at a slow time with my before picture, dining card, and ask the manager if he will honor the card. Heck I will show him my incision marks too. I wouldnt be upset if they dont honor it but will tell them my group of friends will eat elsewhere. Frankly I want to return there to prove to my friends there is eating and fun after surgery. My one buddies daughter needs WLS bad.
   — bob-haller

December 16, 2001
I got my meal card from my surgeons office. So far I have only had 1 place refuse it and they were quite nasty about it. (Old Country Buffet-long story and I intend to write a letter concerning the managers remarks) But, everywhere else had been great. (Boston Market, Olive Garden, I-Hop... I normally order from the kids menu and the majority of the time I am never asked a thing. But I carry my card with me just in case.
   — Betty M.




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