Question:
how long after ryn surgery can you expect to be able to begin having sex

   — [Anonymous] (posted on February 6, 2001)

February 5, 2001
Both my gynecologist and my surgeon had the same answer (many years apart): "If it hurts, don't do it...if not, enjoy!" The RNY is not the issue...whether your surgery is "open" or lap will more likely determine how soon you can resume sexual activity in a traditional "missionary" position...but there's a lot to be said for creativity or just plain "cuddling" :-) Good luck!
   — Diana T.

February 5, 2001
It really depends a little on the type of surgery you had and a LOT on how you feel. My husband & I waited about 2 weeks, and then tried to be "creative" so we wouldn't injure anything. I had Lap RNY, so I had much smaller incisions which healed up fairly quickly. Just listen to your body. It's like anything else, if you feel up to it, you can try and see if you can tolerate the activity.
   — [Anonymous]

February 5, 2001
Hi, the first time for me after surgery, I was 9 days post-op and it did hurt a little. Then last night at 14 days post-op it wasn't to bad. It's getting easier, but there is nothing wrong with cuddling till you feel ready don't be pressured go at your own pace and not what anyone else has done sooner.
   — Vicki V.

February 6, 2001
Be creative!!!!!!!!!!!
   — Angela P.