Question:
Has anyone done a spa day?

I am 4.5 months postop (down from 360 to 280) and am going on vacation this weekend. I am going skiing and would have never done that at my pre-op weight (still nervous about the weight I am now, but getting over it). Anyway, we are going to do a spa day in Colorado (massage, facials, etc.) and I am nervous because I have heard spas can be snooty to overweight people. Does anyone have any bad/good spa experiences?    — Rachel S. (posted on March 11, 2002)

March 10, 2002
Hi! What fun!! I haven't been to a 'spa'- but I DID go for a massage about 2 weeks pre-op. I was nervous- the sugery had me focusing on my body and my weight like never before. But it was GREAT! The room was all warm and smelled good, with light music in the air... I would suggest it to anyone. These people are professionals, weight shouldn't be an issue for them. When I was getting my massage, I had an epiphany... that this is just A BODY- not the all I am by anymeans. I am more than a sum of my physical parts. Just try to relax and enjoy! It sounds like a blast!
   — Angela B.

March 10, 2002
What a wonderful vacation!!! I'm excited for you! I am pre-op, 258 pounds. I've been to several day spas and I've never had any problems with the staff. Maybe your sources have just had a bad experience. Although you pay the base fee for your services, anyone who touches you is going to expect a tip (unless you go to an all-inclusive spa) so they work hard at pampering you. If they are rude or treat you ugly, A) they don't get a tip, B) tell the management. Management at day spas strive on your relaxation and comfortablity and will "nip any negative situation in the bud". Enjoy your trip! :-)
   — juliehedges

March 10, 2002
When making the appointments, be freindly and mention that you're celebrating a huge weight loss and that this is your reward for success, and motivation go lose xxx pounds more. Most people who work for a spa or in a "beauty" relate profession are aware of your situation and are really thrilled for you. My new hairdresser has been the best at helping me deal with the thining hair, my manicurist knows that our visits are my rewards for good work---and they really do get excited at my progress. My spa experiences have been limited to the spas on cruise ship, and these people are really nice to everyone---that is what they are paid for and how they get tips. If you feel comfortable talking with WLS to someone, mention it, these professionals may have some advise that can help you deal with being on a very low calorie diet, loosing weight quickly, sagging skin, or some other problem area. Enjoy your day, and make the most of it!
   — Sue F.

March 10, 2002
I've been to the spa twice before the weight loss and once since. They treated me the same each time. It was a wonderful experience and I can't wait to go again. I was nervous when I found out the person giving my massage was a man but he made me feel so relaxed and good that I lost all apprehension laying on that table naked as a jay bird. The only thing covered was a small (and I mean small) cloth across my pubic area. Honey go and enjoy! Pamper yourself and let the Diva in you shine!
   — Teresa G.

March 11, 2002
I am both overweight and a massage therapist. EVERYONE comes in different shapes and sizes and to be honest, I would rather work on someone with some substance than some of the skinny minny women I have worked on. Just relax and enjoy yourself! If you feel uncomfortable with anything, just let the therapist know. No worries!
   — Julie D.

March 11, 2002
It has never been my experience to have a a massage therapist be anything but completely professional with me. The receptionist may be snooty but I've been treated kindly by the masseur, facialist, manicurist everyone. And frankly, never ran into a snooty receptionist. Every spa I've been to they are so nice and calm - must be the music. I've had both men and women doing the treatments and the only thing they ever talked to me about was my skin being either too dry or sensitive. So you know I haven't been since my surgery but all my treatments were don't 250+ Just wait - you will love it and be addicted.
   — Elizabeth A.

March 11, 2002
A real professional would never be snotty to his client! I mean we pay BIG bucks for facials, etc. Plus they want a tip, don't they? I went on a cruise to Alaska at 6 mos postop (first surgery) and pampered myself to a facial, pedicure, and manicure. It was wonderful! Imagine, if you will, the ship gently rocking, dim light, candle, warm blanket, sublingual relaxing soft music, and wow! who could stay nervous about weight? I was a little embarassed by my scar but got over that quickly! It was a great experience and that is what the true professional masseuse will want you to experience. Have a good time and enjoy each moment of every new experience....we deserve it FINALLY!
   — Marilyn C.