Question:
I'm having a real problem with summer clothes

I've lost 167lbs in 13 months and my skin is so loose that with the light fabrics you can see everything jiggle when I walk. The thought of putting on a bathing suit and exposing my legs with the massive folds of hanging flesh is more than I can bare(pun intended). How come none of the smaller sized bathing suits come with a bra in it? Normal sized women have boobs. I was fine wearing jeans because they kind of held everything together but now that it's getting warm I feel like a bowl of jello. Does anyone out there have loose skin on their calves and was it taken care of with the thighlift or lower body lift? Sorry I know this is a jumble of questions but I kind of just fraked out after bathing suit shopping.    — Alison N. (posted on April 27, 2003)


April 27, 2003
Alison- have you thought of a tankini? They come in all sorts of varieties and can usually be found anywhere. Maybe we're just shopping at different places, but almost every tankini I see has a shelf bra in it. You can get the type where they are boy-cut shorts and a tank-top, so it covers some extra skin. Old Navy, Target have these, or you can try catalogs like Victoria Secret, Newport News, L.L. Bean- they all have a large variety. Goodluck to you!
   — Lezlie Y.

April 27, 2003
I feel your pain. I need all new clothing and its so nice to buy things in smaller sizes, but My arms are just flabby skin and I am trying to find things with 3/4 sleeves. Sorry, to say that a thigh lift will not do anything for the skin on your calves. They have to specifically target those areas.
   — Lisa N M.

April 27, 2003
yes tankinis are great. I also bought a great bathing suit through the Land's End catalog. I bought a pair of matching shorts and it is difficult to see that they aren't one piece. The shorts hide my upper thighs nicely. Lands End also has fabulous tankinis.
   — susanje

April 27, 2003
I just bought 2 suits - both at a discount store. I personally like swim suits with a skirt. Wear some sort of cover up (a big shirt type of thing) over it and pretty much everything is covered. Wouldn't it be nice to find something that would squish all the extra skin and flab where we want it to go (like away!) I'm afraid I will slap myself silly if I wave to someone at the pool this summer. (Arm flab alert!)LOL!
   — koogy

April 28, 2003
Try A. B. Lambdin catalog or website for swimsuits with bras in them. Those shelf bras just don't cut the muster for some of us! I have the same problem this summer but I'm just toughing it out most of the time in capris and 3/4 sleeve shirts. there's really not a whole lot you can do to cover everything in a swimsuit.
   — Sheryl S.

April 28, 2003
hi there :) wow do i know what you feel like! i just had a tt very recently and have lost over 200 lbs now but oh the the skin on the legs n arms, yuk!! im with the other poster, alot of my new cloths have concisted of capris and the 3/4 length sleeves, i cannot get away with the short sleeves at all. if you cannot find a bathing suit with a good bra in it, perhaps youll need to get one of those push up bras without the staps and keep it soley for swimming, i may do this if i have to. do try the capris and the 3/4th sleeves, they are very becoming and flattering and i do look very good in that style, you will too! :) best of luck to you! :)
   — carrie M.

April 28, 2003
Carrie's reply made me think of something - I have seen bras that have clear plastic straps. I think I may have seen them in a Lane Bryant catalogue, but I know my son's girlfriend is a big fan of them, and the plastic is very soft and smooth. I know I have seen them in stores in regular sizes. That might work with a swim suit.
   — koogy

April 28, 2003
I have to second the Lands End bathing suit thing.. they have many options... check their website... but they have grogeous suits.. with nice bras in them.. and fairly good coverage.. shorts that match... I just got the first bathing suit in my life that wasn't BLACK.. from lands end.. wild purple.. I'm so excited about it.. and it fits me very nicely. I have the hanging skin... everywhere, but you know what? I'm kind of proud of it... well, sort of... *grin* do you exercise? build muscle with weight training? It won't fix it all, because its skin.. but it might help some things.. at least a little... Good luck! I'm having fun buying a whole new summer wardrobe... and hoping I'll do the same thing this winter too...
   — Lisa C.




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