Question:
i know this is for weight support info not for this question but so what

hi i know this is technically not the place for this but so what iam a 36 yr old itlian guy who had the operation in april and was 308 now im 230 iam seeking a gal who is possibly close to me in florida or near by who has hd the operation also to be my best freind new life companion a gal that would be there for me as me her and share conversation tears going out being freinds etc someone who will constructivly yell at me for eating the wrong foods but be a coach i love to write poetry go for walks movies hand hold bike ride now that i can take a bath someone to take a intimate bubble bath with i love to shower a gal with red long stem roses teddybears iam seeking gal that i can give attention and affection to i love to give complements i was going to my support groups yes for support for the surgery but to be honest to try to meet a gal i want someone to share the pains and discomforts of this surgery with such as i live on zantac because i get horrendous stomach aches every four hours weather i eat or not other people who had it dont but i do iam looking for a gal to share many things with as marrige and family one biggest hope is that i want a baby so bad and to be a daddy with gl whos had it done and is getting sexy iam with a gal now who is big her self and condems the surgery and wont consider ever having it done herself saying im leaving this world with all my parts and calls me names curses me calls me a wimp puts me down etc my therapist says dont try to reconsile it proberly wont help so id like to meet a gal whos had it done to live life with as best freinds someone i can hold and listen to when she is in pain because when im in pain i get told its not my problem you chose to have that easy way out now suffer i dont need it and dont want it no more i seek gal who might be in the same boat to meet and love iam a very shy person iam sensitive and very naive to the world for being 36 iam a disabled vet iam 5ft 3 italian iam looking for a gal to belive it or not the heck with it ill say it make love to who like me has had the surgery and be my wife and best freind iam very sincere about this and hope for sincere responses hve a perfect day ken of broward co fla    — Kenneth B. (posted on October 9, 1999)

October 9, 1999
Hi Ken. Bet you just opened youself up to about a million women looking for a life companion. I might be interested if I didn't live so far away, and wasn't 5 years older than you. Best of luck to you.
   — Penny W.

October 9, 1999
good luck on your search.
   — Robin S.

October 9, 1999
I hear what your saying.... that is what I wanted too... I thought I had that however my love of my life is now missing. He has been gone for 4 days. Friendships have to be developed first then it moves to another place. I wish you the best of luck.
   — Becki M.

October 9, 1999
You may want to try onelist.com. I believe the have a support group named OSSGSingles or something to that effect. I know how wonderful it is to have a spouse or significant other to walk next to you thru life's trials.
   — [Anonymous]

October 10, 1999
I sure hope that you find that very special person that you are looking for. You sound like a very sweet person. I am pre-op and am just waiting to meet with my surgeon. I am very willing to visit with you and listen to you, but I am afraid that I live in ND, and am very happily married. Get in touch with me if you need a chat or a listen!!!
   — Heather A.