Question:
Has anyone written a will before surgery?

I have 4 small children and I am going to be writing a will but do not really know how to start it off. I have also thought about doing a video will. Has anyone done a will without a lawyer present? If I do it without a lawyer is the will still valid?    — Lovett (posted on April 1, 2002)

April 1, 2002
I made sure that my will was in order, always a good idea when you have kids whether you are having surgery or not. I also made sure my hubby knew where all important papers , ins. ect were. And i wrote goodbye letters to my daughter and husband. I knew this surgery was a gift from God, but i also felt relieved having all of it in order before I went under. Take care.
   — Sue B.

April 1, 2002
I'm working on a new will - I needed to do one anyway. I'm also writing letters to my family and friends but I'm calling them love letters, not goodbye letters. They are going to be welcome to open them at any time. I want them all to know what joy they have brought into my life. Everyone needs that little pat on the back even if the one who loves them isn't facing something like this.
   — Vicki H.

April 1, 2002
Why not spend the $200 and do it right so you won't have ANY questions? You want a professional to handle your surgery, why not have a professional handle your affairs if the surgery doesn't have the best outcome? In the light of all the legal issues your family would face after your death, it is WISE to have it done with an attorney. Besides, if you do it by yourself, what will you miss? What will you forget to say? Are you absolutely sure you want to write a legal document yourself??? Spend the money. You'll be glad you did! Make sure your spouse does it at the same time. You won't believe how simple it is!!!
   — Robby E.

April 1, 2002
Yes, I did my will and a living will regarding what I wanted them to do with me if-"things went wrong". I also wrote letters to both of my daughters. Letting them know how much I love them. Be safe!! not only before surgery but always!!
   — Sheila H.

April 1, 2002
I found a great up-to-date book at the library which had sample wills in it. (I think it was one of those orange "Idiot's Guide to...") Not only did I create my own will, but I also created a power of attorney form and living will. All three documents are extremely important regardless of whether anyone is having surgery or not. Check your library and see what books they have on the subject.
   — kristinevok

June 4, 2002
Actually, I found a free-will site on the web that says it is valid in all states except Louisiana. I was able to complete it in about 15 minutes, and save it to my computer and print it out. Then I'll get my witnesses and we'll all stand before a notary and it's done... Here's the web site address: http://www.freewills.com/index.html Here's hoping this is just a good preparedness exercise. Debbie
   — suitfugue