Question:
I'm sick of liquards soft things.

I want to eat a hot meal. some food. I don't feel like I'm satisfried in eating. or do I suppose to. lol    — Naes Wls J. (posted on December 31, 2002)


December 31, 2002
I thought I was in heaven when I ate some refried beans with cheese from our favorite mexican restaurant. It was so different and tasty. I think taco bell has some.
   — Tawnda C.

December 31, 2002
If you are on clear liquids there are not that many options ( I was hungry the whole time). If you are up to pureed foods cook anything you like to eat and just stick it in the food processor! I also used a lot of tuna, eggs, chicken and fish. Remember that soft does not mean bland! I also enjoyed very soft lean meatloaf, Wendys chili, and warmed up Ricotta cheese with some tomatoe sauce (stuffed shells without the shells) I stuck exclusively to protein so I can't give too many "non protein choices" but don't be afraid to try warm soft foods, just go slowly and trust your judgement! My head knew before my stomach what was going to be OK and what wasn't. Enjoy!
   — Linda 1.

December 31, 2002
Are you nearing the pureed stage yet? I loved Italian Beef cooked all day in the crockpot, then pureed...yummy. My first "real food." If you cook it long enough you can practically puree it yourself in the chewing process...just remember SMALL BITES. Good Luck, you are on your way :) - Anna LAP RNY 7/3/02 -100lbs.
   — Anna L.

December 31, 2002
The difference in surgeons and philosophies is unreal. I had a open R/Y on 12-5-02 and they wouldn't let me leave the hospital until i was eating pureed foods, on the 4th day after surgery. I have been eating regular food since the ist week, i am down 31 pounds so far and just can't believe all the different responses from everyone. i have tried every imaginable food that is available and the only thing that is hard to get down is steak, even small bites and chewed until my jaw cramps, but everything else is tasting great, good luck everyone. (Post-Op 12-5-02)
   — keller W.

December 31, 2002
if you on puree cut anything into pencil eraser sized bits and chew to death. This idea from my surgeon works great.
   — bob-haller

December 31, 2002
My surgeon has me on a liquid diet for 3 weeks, then a soft-food diet for 3 weeks, then slowly add in table food for 3 weeks. Well... I did the liquid stage ok - but I only stuck to soft foods for a week because I craved something to chew!! Please try to stick to your doctors plan for as long as you can... but if you just have to break it... go in very small pieces and chew chew chew!!
   — Valerie H.

December 31, 2002
during soft stage I was allowed to eat any crunchy food that could be dissolved in water (saltines, corn chips, etc.). Satisfied the need to chew and crunch. Wonderful! Ask your doc if this is ok for you.
   — [Deactivated Member]

December 31, 2002
I felt the same way Nadine. Well, at first the sight, smell, and thought of food made me want to die. I had no interest in food and said I would never eat again. Why did I feel this way? I was in the hospital and I couldn't even eat Jell-O. The very thought of it made me want to vomit. I barely drank in the hospital but I did manage the ice chips. When I got out of the hospital I was reading all the questions/responses and I was mortified at what recent post ops were eating when I could barely drink 8oz of liquid a day. I lived on ice chips. I refused broth and I refused Jell-O. I was to be on the liquid diet until 10 days post-op when I had my follow-up appointment with my surgeon. He then graduated me to soft mushy foods like tofu, scrambled eggs, and cottage cheese. Gag me now! The only thing I liked was eggs and once I had them twice I never wanted them again. Life was a living hell those first weeks. I wondered when I would be able to eat normal things. I have to admit that I'm a very cautious eater when it comes to my new pouch (Open RNY 11/11/02) but I don't want to hurt myself. My roommate in the hospital was already eating chicken & beef 3 weeks out and I could barely drink. It was so disheartening and I wondered, what the hell did I do to myself? But eventually when all the post-op pain went away and I decided to venture out a little life got easier. They say each day is better and that is so true. I have eaten deli meats, turkey, chicken, and a few other things that I swore I would never eat because I was so scared. I must admit I had a problem the 2nd time I had chicken and I'm swearing chicken off as of right now. But now that I can eat 'hot meals' I don't want them. I have no interest in food whatsoever. I look in the fridge, freezer, and cabinets and they are full (at my parents house). I constantly look in them for SOMETHING. ANYTHING. And I find NOTHING that I can have or want. So even though I've been graduated to try new foods I am still stuck at peanut butter and tuna. I used to be a big pasta eater (as a college student it was a staple) but now I can't do that. I wake up in the morning (or the afternoon depending on the day) thinking/feeling like I'm hungry. I look around and find NOTHING so I go without. I barely eat and I know it's hindering my weight loss but I have absolutely no interest in food. Sometimes I'll try something new and after a few bites spit out what's in my mouth and throw away the remaining portion. So I feel your pain. I've been there...I am there. I'm almost 2 months post-op and while some things have gotten a lot easier the eating aspects feel like they will never be corrected. I know everyone is going to think I'm nuts that I don't eat when I am able to but I get sick just thinking about eating. They say that we used to live to eat but now we eat to live...we used to be obsessed with food and it ruled our lives but even though I'm not eating I feel like it plays a bigger role in my life now than it did before. The only things I like are skim milk and tea. I eat peanut butter crackers and tuna but I don't LIKE them. I eat them because I know I have to eat something. So good luck with your journey. I believe the learning never stops and as much as you research this surgery as a pre-op you can never be prepared for what is REALLY going to happen. But I'll take each day as it comes and try a little harder and I hope you can do the same!
   — Tracy A.

December 31, 2002
Nadine,I had Lap RNY ON 12/05/02. I cant choke another "Milk based protein shake down".I got some "Designer Whey drinks from GNC..IN flavors you can put over ICE!!The Strawberry and Orange are great..They each have 40 Grams of Protein..I also got some Vegetable soup and even the little 2 oz I can have is good!!! Hang in there soon we can have real food!!! Nancy Poe
   — NANCY P.

January 1, 2003
Nadine, at your stage you should be able to eat alot of soft and hot foods. The refried beans with melted cheese is a great one. Also, chili is great at your stage. One of my other early favorites was crab cakes. They are very soft. Also steamed white fish with very mushy vegetables, like squash, is great. Just use your imagination. Many post-ops take perfectly normal food and puree it. I actually skipped the puree stage and just ensured that my food was soft or chewed very well.
   — Cindy R.

January 2, 2003
Hot foods that might satisfy your need would be cream-of-wheat made with unsweetened soy milk, peanut butter, and some artificial sweetner. I also ate string cheese and just chewed it to death. Hang in there, your body is healing and needs a chance to do a good job. Good Luck!
   — Cara F.

January 2, 2003
Try a twice baked potato with a little sour cream. Yummy!
   — dolphins94

November 12, 2009
I am 2 weeks post op and feel the same way as all of you have expressed. I look at my food options and then would rather not eat at all. I have found thst some things like chili, mashed potatoes or twice baked potatoes are good and I will have to try refried beans with cheese. I did have tomato soup with mozzeralla cheese melted on it and that was good too.
   — HeatherNP




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