Question:
Why am I craving chocolate?

I'm almost three months post-op and have been dying for chocolate. I've been eatting m&m's ver slowly so a bag seems to last forever. But when they are gone, I feel like I'm going to die if I don't get more. Any suggestions? And is there a physiological reason this is happening?    — adeas (posted on August 10, 2003)


August 10, 2003
purchase some suger free chocolate from walmart or CVS. They have chocolate bars, and other variations. I don't know how to stop your craving, but at least you won't be getting the suger. You could try chocolate protein drinks or protein bars, like u-turns or detours.
   — thekatinthehat

August 10, 2003
I notice that I am craving more sweets after the surgery than I did before. I was never a sweet-eater, but now I notice I need something every day...fruit can do the trick, but I find the Atkins Wafers are the best. They are real chocolate, but no sugar. I can't tell the difference between them and Twix bars. They have a cookie crunch and come in vanilla, peanut butter and mint. I have gotten others hooked on them and you can get them at GNC for cheap if you have the gold membership. I just buy a box during the discount week and keep a bunch in my "junk" drawer along with some sugar free hard candies like butterscotches...Caution: these candies usually contain malitol for sweetness and can cause excessive gas. Keep the Gas-X handy!
   — missmollyk

August 10, 2003
Chocolate *is* a feel-good food; eating it helps release serontonin in your brain (the substance found in many anti-depressants). It's also why a lot of us reach for more of it during "that time of the month," or just generally for comfort.<P>Eating chocolate by the bagful (even a little individual M&M bag) on a daily basis is a red-alert problem at your stage, especially if doing so isn't satisfying your craving. There's about 200 calories in that little bag (I've done 'em, too!). Nothing for it but to go "cold turkey" -- and in your case, I wouldn't recommend substituting sugar-free stuff, because often eating the sugar-free stuff does NOT crush the cravings either, it just keeps them alive. Protein snacks will probably crush the cravings, though -- time to add some new ones to your regime. Good luck!
   — Suzy C.

August 10, 2003
Stop eating the M&M's....now. You are starting to graze, and that is not a habit you want to pick up at this stage. I caught myself doing the same thing....eating a few M&M's, munching on a few crackers.....And, I do believe, that once in while it will be ok for me to have a treat. But, when I realized that I was having bites of treats and "just a little bit" all the time... I had to stop. I make sure I read (over and over again) about the way WLS patients regain weight and, most of the time, it is from grazing! So, my suggestion to you is to stop eating the chocolate right now and leave it alone for awhile. I'm not telling you forever...just a while! Once your body is on a good protein regiment for eating and you know how to keep your body satisfied with the healthy foods. Then, you can incorporate some occassional snacks. Start by keeping track of everything you put in your mouth (fitday.com is a good tracker system.) You'll start seeing your "good" calories and your "empty" calories. I wish you the best of luck... Open RNY 3/20/03 -65Lbs
   — teresa M.

August 10, 2003
May I suggest that you try some of the protein bars like Detour, U-turn or One-Way. They taste just like a candy bar and have 30gm or protein. So you are not cheating, satisfying a craving and getting in some much needed protein. By the time I finish one of those bars I do not want chocolate for a while for sure.
   — Charlene W.

August 10, 2003
Fifty - 50 (a diabetic food company found in most grocery stores) makes a bag of small chocolate candy bars - like the bite size hersheys. I keep a bag in the frisge and when I get a chocolate craving I have one, however I can go for a week or two without having any. I also make sure that I have it with a meal, so that I am not grazing.
   — Heather M.

August 11, 2003
Chocolate does have a physiological effect on the body. It makes us feel good because of chemical reactions it sets off in our brains. But stay away from the M&M's because it can set off the "grazing" that will get you in trouble long-term. Try some of the sugar-free chocolates, but try to do it in a "meal-structured" environment. Wal-Mart carries a line of chocolate bars called Pure-Delite that's low-carb and sugar free. The dark chocolate ones are great for an occasional treat. Have you tried sugar-free low-fat ice cream. A half cup of it here or there won't hurt anyone. Something with chocolate in it occasionally might curb that chocolate urge. Wal-Mart also carries Russell Stover sugar-free chocolates and they're pretty good. Nobody said you don't get treats, but just don't partake in a grazing fashion. Occasionally won't hurt any of us, but just be aware of the calories in these things and don't put them ahead of good nutrition that essential for us to be healthy long-term.
   — Cathy S.

August 11, 2003
I have not had surgery yet but I am doing Atkins and might I suggest that you try the Atkins Advantage bars. They only have 2 net carbs and will satisfy your chocolate craving. They also have a peanut butter cup one that is really yummy. Good luck.
   — classite

August 11, 2003
I wish I could give you a definative answer here. I seemed to recall having chocolate craving about that same time. I kept a partial bag of Dove milk chocolates I got before Christmas and it lasted until about Easter, or longer. (And I had help from some of the big "mice" in my house!) I had one or two pieces when the need for chocolate really hit - like you, I couldn't stop thinking about it. The craving seemed to go away. I still sometimes have some chocolate, but it isn't that overpowering urge like I had then. To be honest, don't try to make a bag of M&Ms last. Eat some sort of protein, then eat them at one time and get it out of your system. (In other words, get a big "bolus" of chocolate.) Maybe that will get rid of the craving. Shakes and candy bars didn't do it for me. It had to be real chocolate. It does go away, and that is one "food friend" I can't give up completely. Maybe it has something to do with the chemicals in the chocolate.
   — koogy

August 11, 2003
I have a little bit of a different take on chocolate than the other posters. I don't consider any food-protein, carb, sugar etc- as off limits. I can't imagine life with just sugar free chocolates (Bleh, I've tried them all..)or substituting protein for my sweet tooth. Just won't cut it. I agree that trying SF chocolates, or SF hot chocolate, or chocolate protein shakes should be the first step and if that works, more power to you, but for me, none of that worked, and I felt deprived (like the pre-op days whenever I tried to diet). Now the Detour bars did work, so when I want chocolate, I head for that first. If I still want chocolate later, I'll have a few hersheys kisses, or mini choc chip cookies. Moderation is the key, and I ensure that the calories from my sweets are incorporated into the daily calorie total and only if I get in my protein too. It works for me- I don't feel like anything is off limits and I can enjoy my daily sweet treats as well as ensure that I eat well during the day. It would be different if I ate a bag of M&Ms every 2 hours or a plate of brownies. In other words, if you lose or cannot maintain control, which many post-ops fear they would do, it would lead to regain or at your stage, a huge slow down in weight loss. And truthfully, I waited until I was further out before I made it part of my daily diet. At 3 months post-op, your not eating enough calories yet and need to concentrate on eating protein first. I'd try staying away from chocolate if you can for another 3 months or more to maximize the weight loss.
   — Cindy R.

August 11, 2003
I am the same way! Mostly when my monthly shows up, then I crave it really bad. I am 11mo post-op and until recently I ate the chocolate protien bars and now I still do, but I also will eat a couple small tootsie rolls. I do agree with the others and you should stay away from the M&M's for now. Train your mind and body not to crave the REAL chocolate and stick to SF candy or protien bars:o) Good luck to you!
   — Sandy M.

August 11, 2003
I have the perfect thing: Flourless chocolate brownies! I posted the recipe (which I created, thank you :) on my profile. They are low carb and have protein and a bit of fiber and lots of nuts so they fill you up. They have a rich chocolate taste to satisfy your craving. I am normally a bottomless pit when I PMS, but I haven't noticed that this month. I think these saved me from myself! LOL
   — ctyst

August 11, 2003
ORIGINAL POSTER HERE - Thanks for all your great suggestions! As a rule I don't consider eating a few M&M's (like 5-10) grazing. I'm not eating the small bag in one day - maybe in a week. In any case, I do meet my protein needs every day (at minimum 60 gms). I've tried protein bars and loved them pre-op but can't stand them now. I also have to be careful with SF foods - aspartame gives me headaches. The cravings just seem overwhelming at times and it takes all I have to drive past the stores. Anyway, thanks again for your suggestions. What a great resource we have in this site!
   — adeas

August 11, 2003
I go through food fettishes! One of them was eating plain m&m's with dry roasted peanuts. (NOT peanut m&m's)This is a really good sweet and salty snack! Shelley '
   — Shelley.




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