Question:
adictions and how do i stop. surgeon in colorado sp.

alcahol Im 2 years post op rny. recently devorced and started liking to drink. what is bad i get too drunk and make a fool out of me, did i switch addictions i never drank before. I came here from alabama and my dr and supprt is there. nee help here.    — sybiliowa (posted on February 2, 2008)

February 2, 2008
If I were you I would start with a local AA Chapter. Even if you're not an alcoholic, and just looking to nip it in the bud, they should be able to provide you with effective tools, and/or refer you to a therapist who would be able to help you work through addictive behavior, if that's what the problem is. You may also want to get in touch with a local church of your religious affiliation. There is an entitiy that is greater than us that you can call on for strength. You are going through a rough patch and, even if the divorce was for the best, it can really mess with your self-esteem, which can trigger addictive behavior. When I was at my lowest, it was only my faith that gave me strength and got me on the right track again. Good luck.
   — KatFord

February 2, 2008
Try to avoid situations where alcohol is involved. If you have a tendancy towards addictive behavoir, you should consult a professional that deals with addtictions. Your weight loss will not be premanent if you drink alcohol on an addicitive basis, as it's high in sugars. If you need to ,call your previous doctor to try to get a referral to a new doctor in your area. I'm sure there are some professionals in your local area that can help you.
   — Dave Chambers

February 2, 2008
Oprah did a show on transfer addictions. it basically stated that alot of people who were addicted to food and than had wls, started another addiction. Stop drinking now before it becomes too far gone. Be addicted to exersice. My mom worried about me becoming an alcoholic after the surgert-what's messed up about the whole thing-she is a closet alcoholic.
   — bogacz71

February 2, 2008
Lookm for a hospital near you on this web site and then call that hospital and ask where their support group is. THen call AA as they will help you with your additiction. I use to drink, but gave it up for surgery, and now, would never start again. Save a lot of money and I still drink water with my frinds and they don't mind that I can be the driver all the time.
   — William (Bill) wmil

February 2, 2008
before surgery we would eat when we had problems. Some of us will and have to find an "out". unfortunatly some revert to drinking or smoking. you dont want to go that route. Please Get counseling now. instead of drinking, go for a walk, Call someone (a friend), get a pet. Bob [email protected]
   — obx100

February 3, 2008
I'd say that if you have to ask that question, you already know the answer. Go to your nearest support group and AA and get off that road quickly. The sooner you can nip it in the bud the easier it should be to quit and avoid it. Good luck and God bless!
   — crystalsno

February 3, 2008
Whether or not you "switched addictions," you're starting to have a problem with alcohol, and (as other people here have said) you want to deal with that before it gets worse. AA is helpful for many people, and it's free, and most towns and cities have meetings. For some people, AA isn't the answer; there are other organizations that can help too. Either way, please 1) find a therapist (and make sure it's somebody who has training and experience in working with alcohol and other addictions); 2) start to build a support system in your new home. Life can be very lonely after a divorce, and being in a new state with all your support back in the old place makes it so much worse. Work on finding friends with similar interests-- craigslist.com is one free site that lists people looking for similar activities, and many local newspapers have similar listings. Of course, you'll want to avoid people who are looking for friends to go drink with after work! But depending on what you like--movies, pets, bowling, scrapbooking, you name it--there will be other people out there. Taking "continuing education" classes at a local HS is also a good way to keep your mind busy and maybe get to know people. Good luck!
   — [Deactivated Member]

February 4, 2008
Hi Sybil, thanks for writing. You already know the answer to this question. Your pain is big and your support is small. I really urge you to stay away from alcohol. It will destroy your weight loss goals, and possibly destroy the surgery you had. I can direct you to support though. If you really live in Council Bluffs, IA, there is a great support group at UNMC in Omaha on 42nd & Dodge. They meet the 1st Monday of every month, hey that is today! Come out at 6PM for the meeting and get some support. Alcohol is NOT your friend. It can only harm you. Take care. Patricia P.
   — Patricia P