Question:
I am scheduled for surgery 5/4/06. It has Just hit me. I am Scared.Please help.

   — Peanutb (posted on May 2, 2006)


May 2, 2006
Michelle, Everything will be fine. Look at this as a great journey and you are going to spend the rest of your life so happy! This is truly what you have strived for all these months and you have worked so hard for and you are at the end of the rainbow and this is your pot of gold! Just smile and keep your head up, you are almost to the losing side!
   — Sheila_E

May 2, 2006
~Michelle...You are going to do AWESOME. It does cause anxiety for anyone who is having surgery WLS or otherwise; it is only natural to feel this way. Keep the whole picture of after "everything" you'll be able to do when you have reached your goal. The anxiety and pain from the surgery will subside soon and all you'll have to look forward to is GOOD things and a successful journey!! WEe are all here for you / see you on the losing side soon.I wish you a successful and uneventful surgery and speedy recovery. Keep us all posted to let us know how you are doing! BIG HUGS~
   — tiffany E.

May 2, 2006
Michelle- it is normal to be scared- realize that if your doctor didn't feel everything was 'go' and safe for you he/she wouldn't undertake the surgery. You will do fine- I had my surgery 2 weeks ago today- it went almost picture perfect. The rainbow is out there for you to see!
   — dabby

May 2, 2006
Michelle I am in the same boat as you my date is also May 4th. I started getting nervous this morning. I just keep thinking about how good I will feel in a few weeks once some of the weight starts coming off. Good luck and I will keep you in my prayers. Nikki
   — nikki3528

May 2, 2006
Michelle -- It's normal to be nervous. Just be excited. My partner has had it and a close friend of mine just had it about 4 days ago. All will be well. You've taken all the necessary tests and those have come out fine. Think about it, you've had several tests before getting to this point, going into the surgery, knowing that you are healthy is a plus. You will be fine -- now just breath.
   — the7thdean

May 2, 2006
It is going to be ok. Trust yourself. Listen to your surgeon. It's going to be fine! Best wishes, Chris
   — CChappell

May 2, 2006
You are going to do just fine. I understand how you are feeling because I had the same. What I did is put everything in God's hands for he knows best. Just know and believe that this is the best thing that you can do for yourself and you are starting a brand new life. Best of luck. I will be praying for you.
   — Laural D.

May 2, 2006
You are in my prayers... think positive and positive things will happen!!
   — Kayla S.

May 2, 2006
Hi Michelle, I was in your shoes exactly 7 months ago. On Oct.7th I had gastric r/y. I am not kidding the first month was the pits! But after that it has all gone so fast. I am 20 pounds away from my goal and have lost 107 pounds as of today. You have to be ready mentally and keep your head. As long as you do as you are told you will be just fine. But you will doubt what you have done. It will pass! If you want to talk you can e me anytime. I am on here every day! Keep your head and keep centered. As long as you are truly prepared and ready all will be fine! Good luck, sip, sip, sip, walk, walk,walk............ You will hear these words till your sick of hearin them!!!!! But you will do good!!!!!I will say a prayer for you!!!!!!!!!!!!! See you on the other side!!!!! Your weight loss sister,,,,, Vicki
   — Vicki Gill

May 2, 2006
michelle - I had my surgery (lap-band) last thursday, I can tell you that my excitement took over being scared. They had me walk into the OR, first time for everything, as they were preping me they asked if I was scared. I told them no that I am excited and they told me that alot of the other patience had said the same thing. I was born in a hospital and to me it just seemed right to be reborn wieght wise in one. So far I feel great and am having great recovery.Good luck and my prayers are with you. Anna
   — innerbeauty

May 2, 2006
Thank you all for your kind words and support. Nikki, good luck Thursday. I will be thinking of you and will say a special prayer.
   — Peanutb

May 3, 2006
Surgery is a scary thing and you would be less than human if you said you weren't scared. You need to look at what the end results are going to be. There is going to be a new you and a hole new life. Good luck God will be with you.
   — vickicarson

May 4, 2006
See? You did great. I know you are having some pain but it is all worth it. HAPPY REBIRTHDAY!!!!!!! Your new life is beginning. you are going to be so much happier and healthier. If you need anyting or just want to talk, call me 210-379-6808 or email me [email protected]. I am here for you. Toni
   — tonifrisina




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