Question:
What was the hardest part of your surgery?

   — NYoung (posted on December 6, 2006)


December 6, 2006
Mine is waiting to have the surgery!
   — Diane C.

December 6, 2006
I did my research so I did not have any surprises. I also knew plenty of people who had the surgery so answers for questions were easy. But the hardest part has been the different way I am treated by friends, co-workers and such. Some is good and some not so good. It is like living as the thin person that I never was with the same triumphs and pitfalls. Being thin also hasn't solved any thing i.e. relationships and such. I also have a hard time seeing the thin person in the mirror. I purchase the smaller clothes and put them on but I still see the "fat" person. I have not gone overboard with my weight loss. I lost 127 lbs. and I am 19 months out and work on the person in the mirror every day. I was overweight for 37 years and it is not something that is going to disappear over night just because I lost weight. I am aware of it and work at it everyday. That for me has been the hardest part. I wish I could say that it has been the surgery itself, recovery, eating, exercising because that has been easy compared with the above. It isn't a bad thing just not as easily solved as everything else.
   — 1968 Loser

December 6, 2006
The hardest part for me was finally agreeing to have the surgery. The second hardest part has been to stay away from snacking.
   — Cath

December 6, 2006
rolling over in bed after the surgery (open RNY) -- but that only lasted a day or two -- everything else was a piece of cake -- i had done a ton of research and i read everything i could find -- i had no suprises -- GOOD LUCK :)
   — RCassety

December 6, 2006
The hardest part was drinking the stuff I had to drink to clean out my system! Yuck! I had to drink some in the evening and again in the morning, and it made me diarrheic, and I live over an hour from the hospital!
   — Novashannon

December 7, 2006
Hi Nicole, The hardest part for me, was the itching after surgery. I thought I was going to scratch myself to death! I suppose it was the anesthesia. But it only lasted a couple of days. And all is wonderful ever since. Best of luck to you. Jean
   — Jean N.

December 7, 2006
The hardest part for me was the nausea that I am still going thru (2 months post op) and not being able to eat. Food was, more or less, my best friend and now it's gone. I feel great otherwise!
   — cpinck

December 7, 2006
Pre-surgery waiting!
   — deeport

December 8, 2006
The worst for me was coughing or sneezing after surgery. Boy, it hurt!
   — StarWish624




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